Chapter 25 about young

about young (1) I saw a TV program where some middle school students born in the 1980s were debating with a host who was supposed to be about my age.A middle school student said that he was under a lot of pressure, had too many expectations around him, and had no one he could trust, because his parents had problems themselves, and most of his friends were very selfish. After reading a lot of articles about the 1980s, I had this impression.Children in the 1980s are smart, independent, bold, selfish, lonely, and have no sense of social responsibility. Looking at those middle school students, although they can already confront adults tit for tat, their faces are still full of childishness.It's the kind of expression that makes many adults feel that if they are still children, they should not care about them.People of my generation have had such days.

When we were in middle school, we used to feel that we knew everything, but why do adults still treat themselves like children.At that time, family and school were full of hope for everyone. In my middle school, because the annual university entrance rate was maintained at 99% to 100%, so for each of us, if we fail the exam Going to college is not only a matter of personal future, but also related to the reputation of the school. When I was in middle school, I was also rebellious.At night, we would climb out of the school dormitory, a group of people wandered around the train station and residential areas, without any purpose.At the risk of being punished, it was because we felt that we just wanted to spend the night freely that day and didn't want to go back to the dormitory.I still remember that we walked and walked around the city, and finally we were tired, and finally came up with a place to rest, that is to go to the Daguang Cinema and watch an all-night movie. In fact, everyone fell asleep soon.

We also have puppy love, love to death, now that I think about it, I will miss that innocent feeling, there is nothing else, just pure love. We have all experienced the confusion experienced by middle school students today.We have also faced the pressure that middle school students are facing now.We have also experienced the rebellion of middle school students today. The society is changing. Although the general environment we live in is different because of the times, the road we have traveled is the same. The only difference is the scenery on both sides. In fact, I really envy the children now, my daughter.Because now, with the abundance of material life and the development of information, if compared with our era, they can obtain information and understand the world more quickly.

Each era has its own characteristics.My parents, because they experienced a turbulent age, although the turbulent age was difficult, it was more able to temper people.So there are many people who can understand life deeply. And my time is in the transformation period of Chinese society, so I look at many of my peers, they, like me, live with the changes in this society. I believe that the current generation, what this society has given them is another opportunity that we have never experienced. Different eras create different environments and opportunities, but the pressures faced by each generation and the mental journey they have gone through are not much different.If you want to understand this point, you won't complain about why you live in this age. What you need to think about is how to live well in this age.

Everyone has been young, and people will always grow old slowly. Now, walking in the university campus, I already feel that those college students look like middle school students.In fact, it is not that they are getting younger, but that they are getting older. The company's new colleagues are already in the 1980s.Sometimes when joking, we would say that there is a generation gap between us.And this sentence used to be used when we complained that our parents didn't understand us. Looking back on my interactions with my parents, I found that there were not many things to talk about. It is precisely because of this that I always hope that I can communicate more with my children.In fact, communicating with children is not difficult at all, because as long as you understand what they like and what they are doing, the two of you will have endless topics in common.

In fact, the same is true between people. People of different ages can also become confidants.Age is never a problem, the key lies in the degree of closeness of views on life.There is also the ability to try to understand each other.Profound life experience and a tolerant heart will make it easier for people to communicate and be able to accept new things that they don't know much about. I like to go to university, not because I can share experience with my classmates as a person who has been there, but because I can try to understand what students care about, what they like, and what they are confused from. what is it.Only by understanding each other can we communicate on an equal footing.

Listening is very important.Being a good listener is actually very difficult.If it is the kind that forces yourself, it will feel very tormented, and you will always wonder why time passes so slowly.Listening to others requires patience, sincerity, and humility. One day, when I looked in the mirror, I suddenly found that there were many, many white hairs. At that moment, when I looked at myself in the mirror, my heart suddenly became empty, and there was still a little fear.Fortunately, that feeling only lasted for less than a minute. People are always going to die, and people will never be young.Although I know this is the unchanging truth, I am always a little reluctant to accept it.

When I was young, I firmly believed that I would live forever. Now, I don’t think I need to think about the issue of death. What I want to think about is how to grasp the time before death. Many people think that youth is the most precious, but I think that every time period is precious, because different ages have different experiences in life. This society likes to arrange different things for different ages. If you do something that is not customary, you will be accused by others, as if you have made a big mistake. About Young (2) Being young is not simply a matter of age, but also a matter of mentality.The physical age needs to be changed by external means such as maintenance and exercise, while the psychological age depends only on oneself.

There is a very interesting phenomenon. It is found that Hong Kong people are the most difficult to be seen by others in the cities of the two sides of the Strait and the three places.After discussing with my friends for a long time, the reason I concluded is that Hong Kong people can maintain a happy state of mind.They work diligently when they go to work, and entertain themselves when they rest, so life is relatively simple for them.Although the fast-paced and stressful life in Hong Kong is famous all over the world, they look younger than their actual age because of the mentality of being content with living a down-to-earth life in reality.

There is a saying in China that a relationship is born from the heart.People who don't look old, except for some because of God's patronage, most of them have one characteristic, that is, they are cheerful and rarely complain about others or themselves. Most women are particularly afraid of getting old.Fortunately, my worry only lasted for a moment.There are too many young, beautiful and intelligent women in this world, and I can't even look at them, so I don't worry anymore.In addition, I have recently seen many outstanding women in their early forties who can still show their charming demeanor, which makes me feel that life is more hopeful.