At the beginning of the new year, I attended an awards ceremony. The film I shot in Baghdad was shown on the stage. Looking at myself in the screen, it seemed that I was looking at a stranger I didn’t know.I feel that although this girl is not beautiful and unkempt, she is really radiant, which surprises me. Is this me? Because of the need to cooperate with the publishing house, since August last year, I have traveled to more than a dozen cities and given speeches in more than ten colleges and universities.Every time I go to a place, people who see me for the first time will be surprised by how ordinary I am, and sometimes I feel a little ashamed because I don't bring that dazzling feeling to others.But every time, when I stand on the podium, when I face the camera and start talking, others will think that this woman is really attractive.

I think this is me, a person who is extremely ordinary in life, but once working, he will become vivid. In fact, since I was a child, my parents and all the family members around me have told me the fact that I am not a pretty girl.It is precisely because of this that I have never had much trouble about my appearance. Anyway, there is no way to change what I look like.When I see those girls with beautiful facial features, I never envy or envy them. I always use a kind of appreciation. Until now, I still like to be with my male friends and regard those beautiful girls as scenery. Since I was a child, I have always had the idea that pretty and beautiful are different concepts.Beauty includes more elements, such as natural appearance, hands and feet, taste in clothing, conversation, and most importantly, whether you can be truly confident.

Because of work, make-up is essential, but if I can choose, I would prefer to be naked, because I think, if it is your real friend, someone who really loves you, likes and cares about you, it will not There are so many differences because of your looks. I think how to match clothes may be the thing that I spend the most time doing, because I believe that a person's dress reflects a person's character, a person's aesthetics, a person's taste, and sometimes, even It is the value of life.And I believe that if someone can agree with what I wear, then the other person has already begun to understand who I am.

But the clothes are just the appearance. I have met many girls like this. They are not only beautiful, but also very temperamental, and their attire is also very tasteful. They are put together with their appearance.Between conversations and gestures, I don't think it's easy to learn from fashion magazines and expert column tips.This is a kind of accumulation, the accumulation of life experience, the accumulation of knowledge, and the accumulation of thinking.I always feel that this is not learned, but created by each person's own life. With enough accumulation, people will become confident. True self-confidence is not shown to others, but exuded unintentionally.Confidence comes from there. For me, self-confidence comes from my grasp of work and life.When I face different people and different environments, I know that I don't need to worry about myself.

Because of self-confidence, you will become tolerant.I think it is the most precious quality for a person, not just a woman.Only a tolerant person will have a bright smile and a young mind. I always feel that a woman with rich experience, a woman with many stories, and an independent woman is naturally beautiful and full of charm.I think the women I admire, they're all like that. Everyone's appearance is different. If everyone remodels their appearance according to the so-called beauty standards, what's the point of being repetitive and without personality?