Chapter 5 Section 5: Preface 1 I see Su Qing (5)

Section 5: Preface 1 I see Su Qing (5) The number one requirement for advanced flirting is distance—and it doesn't have to be physical.Keeping a distance is to protect one's feelings from pain.Applied to other things, this can be said to be the basic idea of ​​modern people. As a result, people live lightly and have a distance from life.In theory, Su Qing often can't jump out of the circle of popular ideas, but it's a joke to advocate distance with Su Qing, because she is such a person who is so excited, she can't stretch and shrink, and pays attention to every step. . I speculate on her purely from the attitude of writing novels. There must be many mistakes, but I can only do this.

Once I talked about Su Qing with Yan Ying, Yan Ying said: "I think her biggest attraction is: men always feel that they don't owe her anything, and they are very happy to be with her." However, Su Qing thinks that she suffers from here.Men look up to her and treat her like a man, and she is responsible for everything.When she was unwilling, they said she was contradicting herself, she wanted the freedom of a new-style woman, and the rights of an old-style woman.This is the tragedy of ordinary new women; but we cannot say that Su Qing is to blame herself.Her boldness is natural.She is just a straightforward woman who seeks love in addition to making a living, but she is very disappointed, because she seems to see no one who is attractive to her, and some are stupid, and they are just as bad.She also has her naive side, easily fantasizing people very lofty, and then quickly discovering his despicableness, time and time again, the vision is shattered.

So she said, "There is no love." There was a look of contempt in her smiling eyes.But her sarcasm is not thorough, because she has such a basic interest in life that she cannot develop deep-seated sarcasm. In China now, irony is easy to please.In the previous period, everyone was sentimental, full of dreams and sighs of minors, confused and ignorant.Once sensible, see through everything and enter into irony.Comedy, not satirical comedy, is just uninteresting and whitewashes (irony) reality.Originally, satire is a necessary stage to clean up those cliche sentimentality, but it is easy to stay in satire, not knowing that there can be emotion besides sentimentality.For the eye sees only incompleteness; take this incompleteness for truth: — sex is sex; do not primitive people do well without our gimmicks?Yes, but we have reached this stage of civilization, and it is impossible to retreat to the health of animals.

I used to be forced to read the "Bible" in school. There is a verse that I can't remember clearly. It seems to say that the servants of God received money to do business. Those who take more can get more; those who take less A person who can't even guarantee that, God has recovered the money and punished him.I saw it at the time, and it was very unfair.That meaning is really hard to understand. I want to explain a few more sentences here, but I'm afraid I won't be able to explain clearly.In short, life is cruel.Seeing our shrinking and shrinking, timid wishes, I always feel infinitely painful.

For a while, it was rumored that Su Qing had reconciled with her divorced husband.I have never been a nosy person, but I was very worried when I heard it.Later, I found out that it was all a rumor, but it made sense when I thought about it. Most of her marriage was decided by the family at the beginning. Both of them were very young. They went to school together and grew up. Brothers like their own people.If you feel like, "We're still on our own! Then you'll feel kind to him, not to mention that they didn't have any serious incompatibility. However, her divorce was not out of anger, but after careful consideration. She ran out and walked together in the world. I felt bored and went back again. Su Qing couldn’t bear to deny the world and herself in this way. She would become dumb and depressed. So I thought. If Su Qing had another lover, whether it was Better to go back to her husband for a moment of enthusiasm or financial help.

However, she seems to be really a little tired now.Career, love, children by my side, mother in distress in her hometown, younger brother suffering from lung disease in the Mainland, younger sister also has her problems, so many concerns.For a person with such a strong vitality like her, in fact, no matter how much she drags her feet, she will not be exhausted. It is because these things are too fragmented and divided into pieces, lacking a unified feeling.If love can be separated as a part of life, a subject, and titled "love", is that kind of love still a substitute? Su Qing talked to me about her ideal life.Husbands must be manly, not a badass, people have airs, even if they are a bit official, they are still a bit uninhibited.They live in their own house, often treat guests, have good friends, and of course have many girlfriends, but they are all a little older than her by two years, and their appearance is slightly worse than hers, so as not to cause trouble.The nature of the husband's occupation often requires short-term travel, so the family life will not be too rigid and changeless.When her husband is away, she can spare time to socialize with her girlfriend (because she is still worried after all).Occasionally, when I got sick, my friends would come to condolences, bring food and flowers, and the phone would keep ringing.