Chapter 4 Huang Shan this woman

Ever since Huang Shan went to England, Yu Hong has been envious of Huang Shan. She thinks Huang Shan's life is better than her own.Huang Shan's husband Xiao Wang was also laid off, but there is a big difference between being laid off and being laid off. He went to England as soon as he was laid off.Yuhong currently worships two people, a man and a woman. The man is his husband Xiao Wu, and the woman is Huang Shan. When Huang Shan fell in love, Yu Hong felt that Huang Shan was a very special woman.At that time, Huang Shan talked about three people in one breath, and one of them was her current husband Xiao Wang.When she talks about the object, she doesn't come one by one, but three people come together.This requires a lot of wisdom and courage, and sometimes boldness and caution.Huang Shan talked about three partners at once, she was not playing with men, if that was the case, Huang Shan would not be Huang Shan anymore.Her purpose is only one, and that is to find the one that suits her best under the conditions within her ability.She was right in thinking that she was acting with good intentions.

That is to say, it is a miracle that Huang Shan, a woman, has been able to communicate with three men with ease for two years without breaking through.Her shrewdness was that all three men felt that Huang Shan was their only one, and they didn't feel that there was any danger at all.Huang Shan walks among the three men. At that time, she was like a migratory bird, flying there for a while, and flying here for a while.She keeps abreast of climate changes, what clothes to wear in which seasons, and what makeup to wear in which seasons.In short, all three men were confused. Another clever thing about Huang Shan is that she not only grasps the psychology of the three men, but also keeps calm. She is calmly analyzing the pros and cons of the three men. It can also be said that the three men have their own strengths. Some have good family conditions, some have good looks, and some are honest and kind.Huang Shan is always puzzled why these advantages are not concentrated in one person.But she will soon be freed from this confusion, otherwise she would not be Huang Shan.She knows that you can't have both a bear's paw and a fish at the same time.After thinking about it that way, she had nothing to be confused about.The reason why she finally chose Xiao Wang instead of the other two was because she felt that Xiao Wang would make a difference in the future.At that time, Xiao Wang was alone in this city, and being able to stay in this city after graduating from university is already a good example. Another point is that Xiao Wang works in a state agency, so he will be very practical in the future, and he will not be too out of the ordinary.In the current society full of red dust, it is impossible for Huang Shan to think about the future and the present without being pragmatic.This is where she is smart. Not long after she and Xiao Wang got married, two other men also got married one after another. Not long after, a third party appeared and divorced, and the other had a bad life and was about to divorce.Now, Huang Shan herself feels that the original decision was wise.Although Xiao Wang has also been laid off now, this kind of layoff is more affordable than being on the job.Could there be a greater honor than being laid off in Great Britain for a year?

Ever since Huang Shan and Xiao Wang got married, Huang Shan had developed hatred with her mother.The reason was that her mother did not agree to her marrying Xiao Wang. Among the three men, her mother disliked Xiao Wang the most, and Xiao Wang would not please Huang Shan's mother.The mother can't change Huang Shan's decision, and in the end it can only be that the mother and daughter are at odds.In fact, this is nothing, the general situation is that with time, it will all get better.Huang Shan has to make things tight, because during this period of time, she can't get on well with her mother, and someone will definitely gossip. In order not to let others gossip, she starts to speak ill of her mother. She must first He acted decisively and pushed his mother to the dock.

Every Monday, as soon as she goes to work, she tells every colleague about the misfortune she encountered in the past two days, saying that when she goes back to her mother on weekends, how her mother won't let her in, and how her mother sneers at her after she enters the door, saying that she is letting her in. She paid back the child support for so many years, if she didn't pay, it would be considered that she didn't raise such a daughter and so on.Every word was bloody and tearful, and Lao Hong and Li were also teary.They are all people with sons and daughters. From the perspective of their parents, they all feel that Huang Shan's mother has done too much and should not have done it.They unanimously sympathized with Huang Shan, saying that Huang Shan did nothing wrong, and it was Huang Shan's mother who was wrong.Huang Shan got sympathy from people here, wiped away her tears, and did what she should do, anyway, she had shaken off the burden in her heart.

In fact, my mother was not as serious as she said, my mother was just a little upset, and said a few words to Huang Shan in a salty manner. Suffering in front of anyone, otherwise she would not be Huang Shan.She couldn't bear this tone, quarreled with her mother, and then left her mother's house. Huang Shan has never suffered a disadvantage in her work unit, as long as there is a bargain or opportunity, she will not give up an inch of land.For example, she always picks out fruit and rice when the agency distributes them first.Leave the big and good ones, and leave the small and bad ones to others.Of course, everyone is not very happy, but thinking of the current conflict between Huang Shan and her mother, she feels that it is not easy for her, so forget it and tolerate it.In fact, people are quite kind.

This time, Xiao Wang was laid off first, which once made her doubt her own eyesight, but as Xiao Wang was announced to go abroad for further studies, she soon became sure of herself.She often said to Yuhong: In fact, marriage is a bet.If you bet on it, you will bet on it.Yu Hong firmly believed in her words.She also said: In fact, love is not love, it is a lie, you can live with anyone for a lifetime, as long as the other party is useful to you, you can live this life.Yu Hong was dubious about her words. Huang Shan doesn't care whether others believe it or not, anyway, she has been here for so many years, and she feels very good.She joined the party when she was in school, and later she said that the secretary of the party branch in college loved to talk to girls. Of course, the secretary of the party branch is a very old man, and many girls stop talking after two talks. Only she One person persisted, and it turned out that she was the only one who joined the party.When she graduated, her current organization went to the school to select candidates, and she was selected because she was a party member.This further strengthened her creed in life—those false ones are useless, only those that are beneficial to oneself are true.

In the end, Lao Hong and Lao Li also saw Huang Shan's point, and they both felt that young people today are many times stronger than they were back then.If I had Huang Shan at the beginning, I wouldn't be what I am today.