Chapter 21 green shirt wet mourning

Recently, there have been infinitely sad things, who will keep the story longer?From teaching to pay, green windows and red tears, early geese and early warblers. At that time, I understood it, but now I sacrifice it, and I always feel passionate.Suddenly I suspect that the king arrives, the lacquer lamp is blowing in the wind, and I am crazy about the spring stars. 【Suspicion arrives】 In the Ming Dynasty, Ms. Bo Shaojun wrote as many as a hundred poems in mourning for her deceased husband—the number may be the champion of similar titles—also with the theme of "mourning death".For ancient women, there was not much space left for them to express their feelings. Losing a good husband was sometimes equivalent to losing the meaning of life. This kind of grief can be imagined.If they have the conditions to write poetry, most of them have to work hard.After Bo Shaojun wrote 100 mourning poems during the year of her husband's death, on the anniversary of her death, she "died with grief".In contrast, men have much more choices. Even if they are not very lucky, it is understandable to drink flower wine, so the degree of sadness should be discounted.It is good to be careful when reading their mourning poems, and if they say "drinking for a long time with guests, and getting drunk for occasional enjoyment", it may be a good idea to ask whether the poet did not drink before his death; if they say " Look at each other without words, only a thousand lines of tears", then you have to think about how many eyes a couple can have.Of course, we cannot say that the more sensational, the more hypocritical.This is similar to falling in love. Just as sweet words cannot be taken seriously, heartbreak may not count.

However, Rong Ruozhen was an exception among the exceptions. His mourning speech was not frivolous or ostentatious, and he didn't even feel "who will mend clothes at night", because his wife is not a maid after all, so why did she only do housework in his memory in the end? image of?It would be better to miss the nanny.Thank you Mr. Mingzhu for your selfless dedication.On a rich material basis, without the interference of the world, without the tediousness of worldly affairs, Rong Ruo and Lu Shi are experiencing a pure love that is closer to its essential meaning in an almost perfect family environment. .Therefore, Rong Ruo's words always give people a kind of complete sincerity.A kind of sweetness that comes from the peach blossom source.

From the four characters "Huyi Jun Dao", it can be vaguely guessed that this poem was written not long after Lu's death.Rong Ruo couldn't fully accept the blow mentally, so he had hallucinations.What is expressed in the poem is still the infatuation with the deep memory of his dead wife.The first sentence of the last column expresses my own feelings: since the death of my beloved wife, I have been infinitely sad and have no one to talk about, desolate and lonely, and the words are very straightforward.At the beginning of the next sentence, I fell into self-repentance, regretting that I had failed my wife's affection in the past.It is worth noting that there is a "Suddenly Suspected King Arrives" at the knot point of the whole word.This sentence ends with a virtual scene, with reality in the virtual.The brushwork is false, but the emotion is not false.The state is very similar to "The night is long and sleepless, the bright moon is so bright. If you want to hear the sound of joy, you should answer the promise in the sky." It is very similar.This kind of situation is just the illusion that may appear when one person misses another person too deeply.Rong Ruo's misery and self-repentance are like red plums on snow, which can be seen everywhere.

The phrase "Suddenly Suspected King Arrives" has been praised by poets one after another, and it is also famous.Because of the same "Thinking" with Lu: "Acacia plum blossoms all night, suddenly I go to the window and suspect that it is the king."; He Zhu's "Little Plum Blossom": "One night the plum blossoms suddenly bloom, and I suspect it is the king." Zhou Bangyan "Passing the Qinhuai River" : "Who believes that boredom is the Iraqi, only to add Jiang Yan, hurt Xun Qian, but under the shadow of the Ming River, you can still count the stars" and so on.But just because it is famous, it inevitably leaves a brand of skill.

As for the eulogy, the skill is not as important as the depth of emotion.The dead will not care about how colorful your articles are. If it is for the living to read, as Zhang Ailing wrote in "Flowers Withered": "... Chuan Chang is a rare and beautiful girl... graduated at the age of nineteen Yu Hongji Girls Middle School, died of lung disease at the age of 21....Love music, love silence, love parents...Infinite love, infinite Yiyi, infinite regret...A flower in memory, a rose of eternal life... ...Rest in peace, in the hearts of those who love you. There is no one who knows you who does not love you." Then there is no need to judge here.

I think "Recently there are infinitely sad things, who will last longer?" is good enough, and it is the emotion between husband and wife.Like the needle hidden in the heart cotton, when you touch it, your fingers will cry and bleed fiercely.