Chapter 18 Chapter 06: This Is How Steel Is Tempered

Later, Wang Gui began to learn to be smart.If Anna asked him for his opinion, he had to figure out what Anna was thinking first, and not rashly put forward his own ideas.It is very important to learn to guess the leader's intentions--the key is not what you think, but what the leader thinks; speaking your thoughts is not a skill, but being able to express the leader's thoughts is the skill. "I think, you have a unique vision, which one is good, this one matches your temperament, and that one sets you off very well." Wang Gui's serious comments often make me laugh out loud from snickering, thinking flattery can To achieve this level of photography is not something that ordinary husbands can achieve, nor can it be accomplished in a day.He knows how to flatter, but he can speak from the bottom of his heart without changing his face or beating his heart, speaking as naturally as the truth, and he is also sincerely happy, who is more precious than the king? !What's even more ridiculous is that you wear it all the time, but you don't wear it for flattery.We think it is exaggerated, but Anna thinks it is very useful. She often affirms Wang Gui's thoughts: "Yes! You are right! Wang Gui, your aesthetic vision has improved a lot in the past few years. Since you followed me, you have gradually gotten rid of it. I have lost a lot of rural habits, and I am becoming more and more like a city person." From then on, Wang Gui was able to pass the test smoothly.Later, Wang Gui became the deputy director of a large department, and his relationship with the top and bottom was very good. Others praised him for his ability to bend and stretch.He was very proud: "Why is this so difficult? I have been doing this job for decades, and I can coax Anna well, so who are you afraid of coaxing?!"

The term "echelon" is very creative. Leaders should be cultivated and exercised from the grassroots, starting from the seedlings. "If it weren't for me, how would you be today? Don't think that being a director is so great, you just cross your legs and wait for food and drinks at home. Tell you, in my eyes, you are still that country bumpkin Wang Gui." Anna always said this Wang Gui's family training taught him not to forget his roots because of his official position. "Yes, yes, what Madam said is very true!" Wang Gui bowed his head and listened. The turbine driver rubbed an orange for Anna, and Anna remembered it for more than ten years; Wang Gui drove Anna to and from get off work every day for half his life, but Anna turned a blind eye. "You are not as considerate as others. Look at them, you have to warm the oranges before giving them to me." Anna always used this matter to run on Wang Gui, and she never tired of it.I couldn't help hitting Anna afterwards: "My dad picks you up and goes to and from get off work, you're used to it?! Not touched at all! A broken orange is worth making you sigh for ten years?" Should it? He is still not happy to be picked up by someone else! He should thank me for giving him such a chance to perform."

What is romance?Romance is rare and rare.If the turbo driver rubs an orange for Anna every day, Anna will feel unaccustomed to it if she doesn't rub it one day.Sometimes I am really worried that Wang Gui will go before Anna, and then Anna will talk about Wang Gui every day like writing a memoir. "As long as your father treats me well, the children are nothing! The food is on the table, and he doesn't even take my chopsticks!" Now that Anna is old, she has turned around like this.well!There is no absolute in the world, and the vision is different. The word "good" also depends on comparison.How can Wang Gui's thoughtfulness be brought out without our unfilial piety?

"Don't frown, you will get wrinkles." When Anna pressed his stomach with a bitter face, the turbo driver suddenly reached out and pressed his thumb gently on the center of Anna's brow, eager to soothe Anna's pain.Anna froze there, looking up at the turbine driver.The other party didn't have any premeditated intimacy or obscenity in it, and was very calm, as if he did it every day. "Do you think I'm old? I've become a wrinkled old lady?" Anna immediately raised the thorns all over her body. "Nonsense! A woman's wrinkles are laugh lines. The more you smile, the deeper the lines. Yours are not deep enough because you laugh less. Be happy every day and become an old lady sooner." The turbo driver touched Anna's head He stroked it up, messing up Anna's hair.

Anna blocked his hand and said very angrily: "Curse me old when I come back, what good will it do you? You are the one with the worst heart. Let me tell you, I feel a sense of crisis now, so you are not allowed to be in front of me." I am taboo to mention the word 'old'! Wrinkled, loose, hanging, out of shape, you are not allowed to talk about it!" The turbine driver laughed and asked: "By extension, what is dull, Jiang Taigong, shrunk, day lily, pearl, charm, not fresh, have they all become taboos?! Would you like to issue a This taboo dictionary? So that we grassroots can figure out when we violated your anger? Oh! I think this kind of formulation is unscientific, it is more convenient to publish a dictionary that can be used, it is estimated to be thinner, and it is easier to grasp quickly.”

"Oh!" Anna didn't know whether to laugh or cry, and raised her fist to hit the turbine driver's arm. Eighteen Summer is back. "Anna, take it easy. Everyone's going to grow old, as long as they grow old together, and age gracefully. I don't want to see a big girl come up to me in my eighties and say, 'Guess what? Who is it? I'm Anna!' It's too weird, I can't bear it. I'd rather you were a little old lady with wrinkled face, toothless mouth, leaking air when you talk, and deflated mouth when you bite. It's beautiful Anyway, I was also dazzled at that time. Seeing you at eighty years old is no different from seeing you at eighteen. Why do people have presbyopia? It is to make the world more and more blurred, more impressionistic, and more beautiful. I lived in clarity and blur, when I was young my mind was blurred and my eyes were clear, when I was old my eyes were blurred and my mind was clear, it can be regarded as reducing the pain!" The turbine driver slowly tidied up the odds and ends beside the bed, and followed in a voice. Anna chattered, which eased the tension in Anna's heart little by little, and the pain was not so strong.

"Have you taken your medicine?" Wang Gui asked Anna when he came back at night, and picked up the banana bought by the turbine driver, peeled it and ate it. "I don't know how to eat, I only care about myself!" Anna frowned and scolded Wang Gui. "If you want to eat, just say so! Every time I give it to you, you say you don't want to eat it." Wang Gui has long been used to Anna, and she needs something to talk about anyway. "Everything needs to be told by others? It can only show that you are selfish and have no one else in your heart. I don't want it to be my business. If you don't give it, it means you have no heart."

Wang Gui hurriedly handed the half-bitten banana to Anna, "Come, take a bite." "Let others eat what you have eaten? I am not afraid that people will think you are dirty. If you want me to eat you first, why can't I be taught? Don't eat!" Anna can't serve well today anyway. Wang Gui didn't know that the turbine driver had come, so he asked, "What day is it? Is it your day? Are you so angry?" Anna also felt that she was going too far, so she smiled and said, "Go, go! How many times a month? I just came here, no brains!" "You have to give in to women. They are different from us. They have menstrual cycles." Wang Gui often imparts his experience to his son-in-law in this way.My wife also asked an old senior about the same question, "Why does she get angry at every turn? Is mother like this too? Inherited?" Wang Guisheng was afraid that my wife would lose patience and make his precious daughter suffer.

When it was time to go to bed at night, Anna, who had been lying down for a whole day, was as energetic as a night cat. She turned on a small desk lamp and shone in front of the dressing table. When she looked carefully, she seemed to be talking to herself, and also seemed to be reading a book while lying on the bed. Wang Gui asked, "Have I aged a lot in recent years?" "Huh?" Wang Gui was absent-minded, coping while flipping through the book. "Do I have too many wrinkles at the corners of my eyes? When I smile, it looks like a dried apple." "Ah?" Wang Gui still didn't recover.

"I heard that there is a skin-lifting technique now, which can tighten people's skin and make them look as young as seventeen or eighteen. You see Liu Xiaoqing on TV, who is about my age, why does she look like a little girl? Isn't it Have you pulled the skin?" "Really?" Wang Gui drew pictures on the book with a ballpoint pen. "Me and Liu Xiaoqing, who looks younger?" Anna stopped the work of smearing her face, turned around and asked Wang Gui, looking expectant. "Yes." Wang Gui replied habitually. According to Wang Gui's observation and summary for many years, when women talk, most of them talk to themselves;In the past, Anna read "Family Doctor" with her arms in her arms. While reading, she pressed her breasts in the mirror and said "lobular hyperplasia", her stomach said "hepatomegaly", and her buttocks said "sciatic nerve necrosis". vivid.Basically, Anna will have the corresponding symptoms of any diseases introduced in that issue of "Family Doctor".Minor phenomena such as weakness of limbs, numbness of hands and feet, sore back, abdominal distension and cold stomach, etc. have basically never been stopped; the cough has not been good for half a month, and self-diagnosis: "It's over, it must be an early phenomenon of tuberculosis!" The authority and unquestionable tone of voice Wang Gui was so scared that he couldn't sleep or eat, and he went to the hospital countless times, and finally came back with some medicines such as "Ganmaoqing" or "Binyanling".After several years of tossing around, after all the major problems that could be suspected in Anna's internal organs were suspected, Wang Gui at least understood a few truths: 1. Cancer is not so easy to get; 2. The more knowledgeable women are The more the more reactionary; 3. Knowing or ignorance is fine, just be afraid of half-knowledge; 4. If a man listens to a woman, half of his time will be wasted, and if he reacts, all his time will be wasted.

Ever since he understood this truth, Wang Gui didn't even have his ears out during Anna's long career of talking to himself, and only a few onomatopoeias were enough.But don't be too lax, onomatopoeia should be used just right.When a corresponding response is required and expectations fail, Anna will suffer the following revenge: Anna walks to the bed with a smirk on her slippers, leans on the bed, and grabs Wang Gui's ear and says, "What's right? ? Ah? Right what? What did I just say?" Wang Gui quickly came back to his senses from the book, and said calmly and brazenly: "What my wife said is worth a hundred sentences, and everything is right! If you make a mistake, you must implement it to the letter!" Anna patted Wang Gui's face, "When did I miss it? Give me an example!" Wang Gui giggled and responded with his face in his arms: "It never happened at all! How else would there be a Red Book? Anna's words are my family's Red Book!" Anna giggled and patted Wang Gui's forehead again: "Shameless, you will deal with me." Save the day.