Chapter 2 The Origin of "Wang Gui and Anna" (Preface)

The origin of the article is to talk about an extramarital affair. I began to want to write about an extramarital affair I knew well. I see on the Internet all day who has broken free from the shackles of marriage and left the wall, and who has left his wife (husband) and children to pursue happiness. What is happiness?Happiness is a kind of accumulation, a kind of precipitation, and a kind of accumulation of past life.I'm trying to see happiness with my third eye.The same story, the same conversation, happened to different couples, and because of the different handling methods, the results were completely different.

Happiness is a feeling. You notice the tiny eyes that are as thin as a hair, you ignore the unintentional mistakes, you calm down the mentality that life is like a stage play, and you just slowly adapt to it from strong to easy-going, from strong to easy, like drinking tea. Stimulate an inadvertent ray of sweetness, and you will feel happy. There was a time when, like all wives, I tried to transform my husband, hoping that he would develop according to my idea of ​​a husband.I also read a lot of books. I think I am very smart. With my hard work, I don't believe I can't deal with him.

I accused him of his living habits, I accused him of not working hard, I accused him of his casual attitude towards life, and I accused him of not caring about me.The accumulation of many accusations has created a huge gap between us. The two of us cannot sit down together for more than ten minutes, otherwise we must break up unhappy. I treat my life like it is shown on movies and TV, actively creating a lot of suspense, often in a state of climax, waiting for the next episode to break down.Where the dispute was fierce, fists were turned against each other, swords and swords were like shadows.

A few times I've put my breakup on my lips, or he's put my breakup on my lips.Calm down, feel reluctant again.This point leaves the past few years of life behind, as if cutting off history.For a long time in my life, there was a blank space. Thinking about it later, I can accept the breakup, but what else can I not accept from him?I decided to fight coldly and watch him perform rationally.Zhen is on the verge of breaking up and often finds love unexpectedly. He also thought that we were going to separate, and all the care was from the heart, not just to please—since we were going to be separated, why didn't we make a good impression?

He never said he loved me, but he knew that I was afraid of the dark, so he rushed in and turned on the street lights every time he went upstairs.When we go out together, I pay attention to the clothes on both sides of the road, but he pays attention to where there is a toilet.Because I have a bad stomach, once I feel it, I can't bear it for a moment. He always carefully tells me the nearby toilets immediately.This has become a habit of his life. He sometimes ignores my feelings and doesn't care about my inexplicable romantic affairs.To him, this is simply unreasonable: as for the tears for the movie?As for hugging a bird, is it emotional?

But when I encountered major setbacks in life, he always stood by my side very firmly, telling me that as long as he was there, I would not be the worst person in the world.The feeling of being dependent on each other is nothing more than that! I was always looking for what I thought was love.Because I like the feeling of being pampered and loved.I did find what I thought was love.I like that ethereal man very much, and feel that my feelings for him are much stronger than those around me.I even want to abandon this family and go with him.In the end he said: "You love him more than me, but you don't feel it." Anyone with a discerning eye can see it, why am I like a blind man?

I live a very casual life now, I can do whatever I want, and I also give him the same free space.Even if he put his feet up to my eyes, I turned a blind eye.Even when he snores while drinking soup, I feel the sound is natural.Even if his cigarette ash flicked all over the floor, I would wipe it off if I wanted to, or let it blow away with the wind if I didn't want to.Even if he is lazy sometimes, I think let him go! Human beings are human beings, not gods, so in just a few short decades, why make the house look like a prison?Do unto others, do not impose on others.We are now peaceful and happy at times.

Watch the love life of mom and dad.From not loving to loving to being unable to separate, the older they get, the tighter their hands are. Two irrelevant people can become blood relatives in the end, why did we have to separate after we loved deeply?Cherish what you have now, review yourself more, ask yourself more, ask less of others, and have less unrealistic ideas.In fact, happiness never leaves at all.