Chapter 33 Chapter Thirty-Three

I don't know if my parents really don't know about Ye Shengnan and me, or if they're just pretending not to know, they never asked, and I never said it.I guess they are pretending not to know, maybe they find it embarrassing to ask this question, maybe they don't care, maybe they hold their breath and wait for the right moment to explode.As the saying goes, good horses don't turn their backs. Both Ye Shengnan and I have turned their heads. Two bad horses made the old people of the two families not know how to deal with this situation.My parents live in the same retirement home as Ye Shengnan's parents. Does the relationship between the prospective in-laws embarrass them or make them intimate?I would really like to have a chance to see it with my own eyes.

"Are you and Ye Shengnan living together again?" When my mother asked me this question, I have established a new relationship with Ye Shengnan for more than a year. I don’t know if she really just found out, or if she just kept silent and waited to get conclusive evidence to settle the score with me, or if she just found out. Waiting for the opportunity when Ye Shengnan is not in front of him.On the day she asked me about this matter directly, Ye Shengnan had a dinner party at night, so she called her family in advance to say that she would not come back to eat. asked me this question.

The way she asked made it difficult for me to answer for a while. To be honest, even I couldn't tell whether Ye Shengnan and I were living together again. "Whether you have been together or not, I can't control your father, but you have to be reasonable and legal, and you can't fool around like this. Don't you forget that you have a son? Are you What kind of example did you set for Eggy?" I said to my mother: "Mom, please be clear, do you agree that we have lived together or do you not agree that we have lived together?" My mother said: "Whether you have been together or not, you have never listened to our opinions. From dating to divorce, which one has you listened to our opinions? I mean, you should live properly and properly, and you can't be so unclear. Unclearly messing with the relationship between men and women."

I couldn't help laughing, saying that Ye Shengnan and I were messing around with men and women, and my mother was really good at defining things.My dad frowned next to him: "Nonsense, what do you mean by messing with men and women? You can say whatever you want, why are your words so ugly? You always label them as a legacy of the 'Cultural Revolution'." I suddenly realized that it was the same as when Ye Shengnan and I were dating. My mother disagreed, and she said it was my opinion and your father's opinion. In fact, my father and her opinion are different.It's the same now, when she talks about our opinions, it makes me think that she and my dad have unified opinions. In fact, what she said is just her own opinion. My dad and her opinions are different, or my dad is right. Her view on this matter is completely different from hers. If you judge by my father's personality, my father will not take this matter seriously at all, and he will not have any opinions at all.

I told my mother: "It's good that we're getting along, but we haven't planned to remarry yet." My mother said: "If you are really good with her, remarry. Otherwise, don't fool around together. Aren't you bullying her? You want her to be your wife, but you don't remarry her. What's your moral quality?" So bad? This is called moral corruption." I said it wasn't that I didn't want to remarry, but that Ye Shengnan didn't want to remarry. My mother immediately determined the nature of our problem: "Then you are a pair of absurds, two stinky hooligans."

My dad interrupted again at this time: "The baby is so old, and if you don't remarry, you will be a couple. According to the law, this is called a de facto marriage. What is it called a morally corrupt and stinky hooligan? Nonsense." I never expected that my dad's thinking and concepts would catch up with Ye Shengnan's. He saw this matter so thoroughly and understood us so well. No wonder Ye Shengnan has always respected and cared for my dad so much.But my mother lost her temper: "You old bastard, are you speaking human words? No wonder they dare to mess around, and you ordered them behind. Do you regret that you didn't have a de facto marriage when you were young? It's too late to regret... "

My dad suffered it on my behalf, I couldn't bear it, but I couldn't intervene, the matter started from me, if I intervene to persuade, it would be like adding fuel to the fire.Fortunately, my dad has honed it for so many years. When my mother got angry, he just listened, neither refuting nor defending. It seemed that my mother was not scolding him, but he was just a bystander. We were chatting lively when Ye Shengnan unlocked the door and came in.My mother was very energetic when she scolded me, but she gave Ye Shengnan the key in her hand. She really obeyed that sentence, only the state officials are allowed to set fires and the people are not allowed to light lamps.My mother broke the rope of disciplining me, I was very grateful to her, but I thought, if my mother picks up the topic again and criticizes my moral corruption, I don't know how Ye Shengnan will deal with it.I wish my mother would talk about it again in front of her, but my mother didn't.

"Ye Shengnan, why did you come back? Don't you have a social event at night?" I wanted to bring the topic back to my relationship with her, and I wanted to see if my mother would say that in front of her. Ye Shengnan changed the slippers and said, "It's not for you. I'm afraid that you will have trouble in paying for the project after the project is finished. I'll do some preparation work in advance and treat Party A's accountant to dinner. In the end, they changed the appointment to tomorrow for something urgent, and I'll be back." What's the matter?"

I said, "You run a big restaurant by yourself, and you always come to my house to make a living." Ye Shengnan really knows how to socialize better than me, and she wasn't angry at all: "I smell hot pot all day long in the store, and I don't want to eat anything, so I ran back to see if there is anything to eat, what's wrong? Don't you eat?" I continued to draw the fire on her: "Someone said that you and I are morally corrupt." Ye Shengnan changed into her slippers and sat down at the dining table: "Really? Who said that? I really want to lose my morals once."

My mother didn't say a word, I know her psychology, she is absolutely unwilling to spoil the relationship with Ye Shengnan again, she is afraid that Ye Shengnan will ask our family for balls.Sure enough, my mother tried to avoid this topic: "There is still a cucumber in the kitchen that I mixed, and I will bring it to you for dinner." Ye Shengnan quickly jumped up: "I'll handle it myself." Unexpectedly, my dad said: "You sit down and let Grandma Dandan take it. I want to ask you something. What are you two doing now?" Ye Shengnan had no choice but to sit back in her seat and said, "It's okay, it's pretty good."

My mother came from the kitchen with the cucumbers in her hand and persuaded Ye Shengnan casually: "We have no other ideas as old people. We just want you to live a good life. This way the couple is not like a husband and wife. It will be the end of the day." Ye Shengnan said: "Mom, we call it a lover relationship. A lover is sweeter than a husband and wife. This sentence was said by Lenin. Also, Engels has never been married in his life. He and her lover Mary are like me and Yang Wei." Since it was said by Lenin, of course we cannot refute it. Since the revolutionary mentor has set an example for us, my mother and father cannot deny Lenin's statement and Engels' practice.Afterwards, I praised Ye Shengnan: "I really can't see it, you have read Lenin's works, and Lenin's quotations came out casually." "Hey, I don't know what Lenin said. I temporarily made up your parents. Like me, they don't know whether Lenin said it. There is no evidence. However, the Engels thing is true. " My mother said at the time: "You are right, I am just afraid of having a bad influence on Eggy." It was a step back for myself. After dinner, Ye Shengnan and I went back to her house as usual, her house is more comfortable than mine, Dandan basically doesn’t go back to our house when my parents are there, so now my house is basically a decoration.After entering the door, she said, I see you are not happy today, did your parents say something?I said that whatever my parents said, I wouldn't take it to heart.She asked what happened?Is it starting to bother me again?I told her that the troubles in my heart had nothing to do with anyone in the family. What troubled me was the project I got. "That shouldn't be called worry, it should be called stress." Ye Shengnan corrected me. Ye Shengnan did express it more accurately than I did. Getting the project is a ecstatic and good thing, but at the same time, it is tantamount to pressing a big mountain on his head.When entering the actual construction after the joy, thousands of joys will be turned into troubles by thousands of problems.