Chapter 55 to get out of a life

Some girls get married to get out of their present life. Tired of love life, it is better to get married. If you want to move out, but you can't afford the rent alone, you might as well get married. There is no progress in my career, and my life is too ordinary now, why not get married. I don't know if I will be with him in the future, so why not marry him now, and don't have to be half-hearted in the future. However, after marriage, there is no separation from the life before marriage. The other party has not changed for you, he is still the same as before marriage, even worse.

After marriage, there was still no improvement in career.Since they are married, they feel that their competitiveness and attractiveness are not as good as those of single women. Get married to get out of one life, only to fall into another.It turns out that marriage is not exciting, and it has no ability to turn ordinary into brilliant. If you want to change the status quo, you still have to rely on yourself instead of dragging others into the water. If you want to get out of your current life, it may be more effective to go to school than to get married. You have changed yourself, your wisdom has grown, and you have the opportunity to break away from the status quo when you see the new heaven and the new earth.

Want to change, don't get married.Tired of change, it's time to get married. Once, when I was eating, I was emotional because of some unhappy things. I cried while eating, and I had to wipe my tears with a handkerchief in embarrassment.People around me said: "Happiness and unhappiness should be kept to yourself." I don't know if this sentence is a comfort or a lesson.Maybe, he's right. When you are happy, you don't need to show it off to others. When you are unhappy, don't complain to others. Everyone has their own troubles, and it would be very pitiful if we had to bear the troubles of others.

Who is not troubled?That day, I was talking on the phone with a friend. I was annoyed by some things and wanted to hear other people's opinions.He was in the office, and his work was piled up like a mountain. After I said a few words, I felt a little guilty. "Let's not talk about it," I said. "Speak, I'm listening," he said softly. In the end, he gave me valuable advice. Yes, everyone has troubles.However, when I listen to other people's troubles and help them solve some problems, our own troubles seem to be relieved a little. When you are happy, it is interesting to share with others.

When we are unhappy, someone comforts us, and we have the courage to face it. People who keep happiness and unhappiness to themselves are rational but lonely.I still can't do it.