Chapter 24 Reasons for not wanting to break up

When everyone's life is becoming more and more different, and what everyone pursues is also becoming more and more different, will you still try to maintain a relationship? If we are bystanders, we can say very freely: "Of course there is no need to get together again!" However, if you are the person involved, can you still be so free and easy? People always deceive themselves more than they deceive others. Obviously everyone's ideas have gone further and further, considering the relationship of many years, we will still procrastinate again and again.We may think that disputes are normal.We always quarrel like this, and after a few days we make up again.We refuse to admit that the reasons for quarreling are not the same as before

.In the past, it was true that we quarreled over some trivial matters, but today it is because everyone's ideas have grown apart. Once, when we were disheartened about this relationship, we always found reasons to comfort ourselves. Maybe you have been too busy with work recently, and everyone is not in a good mood. Maybe the relationship has been too flat recently, and there will always be ups and downs in the relationship. There are so many excuses, just because we are afraid of breaking up, we are afraid of readjusting to another person, and we are more afraid of being alone.with him

Even though we are bored together, what would we do without him? A letter from a boy in Malaysia.He has always liked a girl, and once confessed his love to her, but she politely refused.It turned out that she had a boyfriend.Since her boyfriend went abroad for further study, she and him have become friends who confide in each other.She told him that her boyfriend was not nice to her.Every time he heard her say that, he would also be very sad. When her boyfriend returned home from vacation, she had to drive hundreds of kilometers to meet him.At this time, the boy took the responsibility for her to reach her boyfriend safely.He asked someone to wait for her at the train station late at night, and he didn't feel relieved until he received a call from a friend who said, "It's done."

He knew it would be painful to go on like this, and he really wanted to forget her.However, the more you want to forget, the deeper you sink.She always said it was too late and she couldn't leave her boyfriend. For her, he changed a lot.He wanted to be a little more free and easy, thinking that this was the best meeting in his life.He and she are fine now, but he can't imagine what it will be like when her boyfriend comes back from school. She told him, "It would be great if we were just good friends." He wondered if he should keep fighting for her. This kind of thing will never have an answer.I don't know if he believes in the love of three people in the world.We may be able to love two people and be loved by two people at the same time.Sadly, we can only grow old with one of them.