Chapter 7 forced to be single

Lao Lu told me that he "disbanded" again. I don't know how many times I have heard this sentence in the ten years I have known him. This group of friends spread the word that non-doctors would not marry, and it was true that he always smelled of Lysol, from the top three hospitals to local hospitals, from emergency rooms to pharmacies, from doctors to administrative staff , His girlfriends come and go, the longest time is one year, and the shortest time is eating shaved ice or drinking a bottle of Coke.At the age of thirty-five, Lao Lu was still single, but he seemed to have conducted a comprehensive survey of the city's health system. In the end, he knew very well how many staff members were in the health room of which factory, and in any hospital he You can find an acquaintance.

Marriage is like buying a lottery ticket. You can't win the jackpot if you are willing to spend a lot of money and work hard.He has only one standard, which is to be pleasing to the eye.It stands to reason that this standard is not high. Maybe the ones who please him are generally the type of Hong Kong sisters. They are really the best among women, like planing ginseng.You think that even if you meet such a woman, the conditions are not low, how can you only look at the talent of the old road.The money that Lao Lu spent on dating these years is enough to buy a house. He is quite open-minded, and every time he breaks up, he says: "It's just good to break up, and there must be better ones in the future." He always looks forward to the future, and in a flash It was thirty-five years old.The parents couldn't hold back anymore, and began to mobilize various relationships to help him find a partner. He watched his beer belly grow day by day, and felt chills for showing his middle-aged appearance prematurely. collapsed.

Ten years ago, people still valued some talents. Ten years later, people's expectations for marriage are more realistic, and they will ask for conditions before they meet, such as single marriage, what kind of house in what location, fixed monthly The income can't be lower than how much... Now the old road has no standards for women, he said, as long as they don't pick him.However, the feng shui happened to be reversed. The old road said that in this world, those who do not get married at the age are not only very good but also very bad, and there is another kind of fool, who belongs to the poor condition.A few days ago, I introduced a woman who worked in a newspaper to him. The introducer said she was short. Lao Lu felt that they should have a common language, so he said to me when he came back: "I am so short that I can only wear high heels once." Mi Si, you have to raise your arms to push a 26 car." Later, someone introduced him to a civil servant from the tax bureau, and the introducer said that the girl's eyesight was not very good. After seeing her, she told me: "That's bad eyesight. One eye looks to the left and the other eye looks to the right. It's just squinting. I always feel restless when talking to her." That’s right, I just said that the girl was not very satisfied with her job. Lao Lu made up his mind to dress himself up and went to meet her. He came back and told me: “That’s called a bad job. There’s no job at all.” I asked carefully It turned out that he was looking for a girl from the countryside of Hebei Province, who is currently making a living by baking pancakes in the free market.To this day, the old road is still meeting people everywhere, and he always asks everyone he meets as if he is suffering from a disease: Why do people get married.

Everyone says that marriage is a shoe. According to this logical deduction, being single is a girl with bare feet. a corn.Why do our parents look around when they see that their children have not "moved" after a certain age, because in the traditional sense, marriage marks happiness and maturity. I think it is insidious to blindly say that marriage is good or bad, because different marriages must have different results.I think whether you choose to besiege depends on what kind of person you are. There are many reasons for being single. Some people choose because they have been picking since they were 20 years old. After nearly ten years of picking, they have lost all their feelings. But you It cannot be said that they no longer look forward to marriage in their hearts.It's like planting seeds when spring comes, but you choose winter. The same cucumber tastes different out of season.

When youth ages from our face day by day, we also lose a lot of fun that we only had when we were young.I have a friend who is in her thirties and dresses herself up as a lady all day long, wishing she could spend every day in a beauty parlor.She is single, but she is not innocent, and there is no shortage of boyfriends around her. She is unwilling to get married because she has made changing people a habit, and she is also addicted.The more people she experienced, the greater her psychological shadow, and the more she resisted marriage.It’s like a good door. You don’t need a key to open it every time you go home. You have to try other methods, such as using a wire or using another key. Although the door is also opened, you can use the original one to open it. When I turned the key, the door could not be opened because the lock cylinder had been deformed.

Many fashion programs say that being single is very popular, and real estate companies also lose no time in launching small apartments for single men and women, advocating so-called single rooms and double beds. In fact, marriage is not a problem. You need to restrain your personality, give love, adapt to the change of role, and treat the other half of the family with equal care... You have to face too many problems.Likewise, marriage will give you richness. I like the feeling of success in life, love, marriage, children, the whole family is the gift of life.We are all looking for happiness, but we often have no patience to sow happiness and wait for the generation of happiness. Marriage is not the tomb of love, but a place to cultivate a person's self-cultivation.The choice of marriage has an impact on everyone's life.

In fact, whether a person is married or single has nothing to do with others. No one is qualified to stand aside and sneer at melon seeds, but my parents should be the people who love us the most. They sincerely hope that you will find a good one when you are young. Destination should be kind and sincere.So, just for a while, not for a lifetime.