Chapter 8 [ lustful woman ]

According to the understanding of people like us who are not very conscious, this topic means to discuss women, or to discuss whether modern women can and should fight for equality between men and women, equal pay for equal work, and economic independence. After that, I will fight for the same lustful right as men in finding a partner and falling in love. Wang Xiaodong mentioned in his "World Map of the Information Age", "So far, the advantages that people use to achieve success in society, acquire wealth, and attract sexual partners are not limited to intelligence. For example, when choosing a mate, women will pay attention to the physical strength and "masculinity" of the other party, while men will pay attention to the beauty and "sexiness" of women.But modern science has found that these preferences are actually something 'more appropriate to the Stone Age than to the Information Age' (Geoffrey Cowley in "The Biology of Beauty," Newsweek, June 3, 1996) Introduction to the article: Scientists have found that, in a statistical sense, a woman's beauty is highly correlated with her fertility. In other words, men prefer to choose beautiful women as their sexual partners, in fact, they are instinctively choosing women with strong reproductive ability What's the point of being one's own sex object today with the emphasis on family planning? But codes left over from the Stone Age compel men to do so instinctively. However, these orientations are deeply rooted in the human genetic code.

It will take hundreds of thousands or even millions of years to change these outdated orientations through biological evolution, which is why these outdated things are still left behind. " And the news a while ago: After fifteen years of in-depth research by American anthropology professor Fisher, he found that a woman's genes are only enough for marriage to last for four years, after which she needs to find another spouse.The chemicals in the human brain that spark love are depleted after thirty-six months of union, but we usually don't realize it until another year, when it's time to turn around and find someone else .Their genes will tell them that having offspring with different males can make the next generation have diversified talents and increase their chances of survival.

In addition, there have long been theories that men's genes will tell them to love the new and never tire of the old, and to spread their genes as much as possible to increase the chances of their offspring's reproduction and survival, while the latest theory adds that women Their genes will also tell them that having as many offspring as possible with different men can make the next generation have diversified talents and increase the chance of survival. Well, now let’s talk about why you want to fall in love.Why fall in love?To put it romantically or to put it mildly, it is because we are lonely.There is a saying in the movie: "If I am destined to spend the rest of my life with you, let it start earlier."

We've been looking for that person we're destined to spend the rest of our lives with, and that person doesn't have writing carved into their foreheads.So, we say to every potential guy, shall we talk?Let's talk about ideals and life. The code is in everyone's heart, sometimes, the code doesn't match, and they go their separate ways; sometimes, the code matches, and it fits perfectly, but he is still not that person.Who knows what happened and what went wrong. In our teenage years, we struggled to find the secret code, but we just wanted to find that person to spend the rest of our lives with.

Everyone calls this process of two people constantly confirming the secret code as falling in love.In other words, we fall in love to find someone to match the code. However, it is very rude or disappointing to say that in fact, we fell in love because of endocrine disorders.We're programmed in our genes, and when the time is right, they kick the valves wide open, and you start to feel restless and dizzy.The factor that opens the valve is both the poison and the antidote. It may be someone's big eyes or someone's smile. It is what makes you hungry and what makes you feel at ease.Because of it, your endocrine starts to get out of balance, and getting it can make your endocrine start to normalize.That is to say, when we fall in love, in addition to the mind is matching the code, the main reason is that the genetic code is also matching the code.

Why fall in love?Because that's a thing that can't be helped at all, a thing that was doomed before we were born. Why is it only today that we are discussing whether women should be lustful when they are in a relationship?Like men, women have been lustful for hundreds of thousands of years. Men feel love when they see a bee waist and buttocks, and women feel a surge of emotion when they see bravery and strength. Speaking of lecherous men and lecherous women... well, they are really a natural pair, a pair made in heaven.