Feng Tang Feng Tang @ 2008-4-2 21:26:34 Answering a question from a magazine: 0. You have expressed your "admiration" for your mother's "worship" many times in your articles, why?If you could describe her in 3 words, what would they be? Tough.Great weapon.Lush. 1. What age was your mother when you were born?What is her occupation/housewife? My mom was 31 years old when I was born.At that time, the country was closed to the outside world, and the rich and the poor were evenly divided. My mother went to and from get off work without knowing it, and brought our three children up.

2. When you were young, did you spend much time with your mother?What is the general situation, can you describe it in detail? many.Before I went to the United States to study business school at the age of 27, my mother and I lived in Weeping Willow outside Guangqumen.Usually it is her who keeps nagging her various opinions on the world, life, nation, my grandma, my father, my brother, my sister, etc. The negative ones account for seventy-eight nine, and the positive ones account for one, two, and three.When she was nagging, I was basically reading and listening.Later, I concluded that there are not many books that are more insightful and sharper than my mother.

3. When you are an adult, do you spend much time with your mother?What kind of situation is it usually in? Can you tell me more specifically? few.After I became an adult, my grandma died, and my mother usually lived with my sister in San Francisco. I usually ran around for the sake of the world, life, and nation.I asked my mother why I didn't go back to Beijing, she said, the air is not good; she said, too noisy, too messy, too many people; Watching TV is too loud and cooking is too salty.My mom knows I'm busy all day, so she never calls me. When I call, I usually chat for an hour or two.I go to San Francisco to recruit once a year, and I stay with her for a weekend. I basically read a book while listening to her chatter. All kinds of opinions are more insightful and sharp than 20 years ago, and the words and sentences are even more incredible.

4. Is the mother a sociable person?How has this affected you? yes.When I came home from school when I was young, there were usually more than a dozen people crowded in a small house of more than ten square meters.I basically don't know each other, all men are called brother, and all women are called sister.Yiguotou, Erguotou, Liushuixi, a dozen people left, and another dozen people came, I still basically don’t know each other.I always thought my mom had all the mass base and charisma to start a religion, organize a political party, start a trade union, but in the end nothing like that happened.The biggest sequelae of this growing environment is that when meeting a woman, no matter how old or young, the first reaction is to call her sister, as if she grew up in Tianjin.The biggest advantage is that the folk vocabulary is rich. Over the past ten years, more than a dozen people have been nagging non-stop, pouring it in from both ears every day. Now when writing something, folk vocabulary will come out of the stomach without thinking.

5. In terms of family education, what role does your mother play, and what is she mainly responsible for educating you?Belong to "strict mother" or "loving mother"? My mother is Mongolian, and her education method is the way of herding sheep, keeping close to society and nature, eating whatever she wants, watching whatever she wants, and growing up as she should. 6. Do you remember the first time you felt protected by your mother?When and how did you feel when you left your mother for the first time? I don't remember any protection.Because I had no discipline since I was a child, and my dad cooks, when I left my mother, I didn't feel much.

7. What kind of relationship do your mother and father have? postmodern model.There is no reason to be together, but they have been married for almost fifty years. 8. How did your mother deal with setbacks?When you encountered problems yourself, did you refer to your mother's solution? The most exciting time for my mother is when she encounters setbacks, as if she has had chicken blood and drank ginseng soup.At times like this, she always showed pure revolutionary blind optimism, opening a bun shop with four tables and thinking of challenging McDonald's ten years later. 9. Do you think your mother is happy?When did you first understand your mother?Do you feel like you are more like your mother?

My mother has happy times, especially when she is alone in the wind and rain, especially when she is needed.I'm half like my mother. 10. What is your mother's best thing to do?Did she ever expect anything from you? What my mother is best at is independent thinking and free expression.I don't recall her having any expectations of me. 11. What do you think your mother has had the deepest influence on you?Did she have any specific advice for your career or marriage? The three most important skills my mother taught me were: common sense, fearlessness, and detachment.My mother never directed my life, her energy was spent on my brother.

12. Have you considered having a child?If you had a child, would you treat him or her like a mother treats you? considered.If there is a child, I must also keep it in the wild. I can do whatever I want. In the long run, it will be good.If the daughter is good-looking, I will leave thousands of books to her; if she is not good-looking, I will leave some money.If the son is smart, leave him a watch and an old jade.If not smart, leave the copyright of the novel to him. 13. What is the happiest time spent with your mother in your impression? There is no happiest time, because there is no unhappy time.

14. Do you think your mother is successful?How would you rate her "mother" role? success.full marks. 15. On the road of growth, mothers will do a lot for their children. What are you most grateful to your mother for? Didn't force me to do anything. 16. What is the one thing you most want to do for your mother?What would you most like to say to her? What I want most is to stay with her for a month or two without any interference, with wine and meat.What I want to tell her the most is: there are too many idiots, let them go if you can't stop scolding them. 17. What was the harshest criticism your mother ever made to you?What is she most proud of?

I don't remember my mother ever criticizing me.I don't know what she is most proud of.