Chapter 36 Lovers have to learn to blame themselves

Learn to rush to blame yourself.When the person you love is unhappy, you have to quickly blame yourself loudly. After a moment of hesitation, another person may appear and declare: "It's all my fault...".Only then will it be too late for you to understand that it is the grace of love and the privilege of a lover to be able to blame yourself. Don't rush to blame yourself all the time.If the person you love is unhappy, if you take all the responsibility on yourself, the other person will be misled by you, expecting you to do more and more, and you will be farther and farther away from the role of "lover" and become a nanny, Toys, patrons, circus troupes, stuntmen, blah blah blah.

Lovers should blame themselves more.Whenever there is a false marriage behavior before your eyes, you should blame yourself: "If I am willing to love that person, I will not fall into this situation." In this way, you can be called a hero of love . Of course, it is enough to have this mind, and there is no need to put it into practice, otherwise the heroes such as Guo Jing, Batman, and Lawyer Mason will all be exhausted.When your hands are itchy, you can take action on a strange case, and just blame yourself for ordinary cases, and that's enough. Lovers should not always blame themselves.Some people always insist on expressing love with self-blame: "I don't love you enough, I don't love you enough, I don't love you enough...", this sounds really ignorant, like saying: "I don't breathe deeply enough, Just like not breathing enough", just because you can't measure it, you forget your own limit.

How much a person can love depends on his lung capacity. If he thinks it is not enough, he should exercise more. It is useless to rely on constant self-blame, it is not sincere and responsible. When the love is over, you should try to blame yourself, because you can't file an effective complaint against others, because you can't submit a qualified injury report, for your heart with seventh-degree burns and third-degree fractures. When the love is over, don't blame yourself, try to blame the other party, because that is the only remaining value of the other party. If you are broken in love, you must blame yourself.

If the customer doesn't walk into your store at all, then don't blame you; if the customer enters your store but doesn't buy something, then you can hardly blame you; You, or quietly discarded it, so can we not blame you? Don't blame yourself for falling out of love. It's not that your craftsmanship is not good, it's that the other party has finished eating.The chef should be happy when the customers leave after finishing their dishes, and there is no reason to blame themselves. You should still blame yourself.Although the customers left after finishing the dishes, they never came to the door again. So, how can the chef not blame himself? !

Still shouldn't blame yourself.How do you know he will never come again?Maybe he came to the door later, but you yourself have already switched to another restaurant?