Chapter 16 There must be someone in love

To fall in love, you must have someone.It's like, if you give a cello concert, you must have an audience.If no one is there to hear and see it, then even if you do play the cello all night, it is just an unforgettable dream.Every note that you played after sweating and wearing your skin disappeared in an instant. In the absence of witnesses, each note was as if it had never appeared in the world. Of course, you can record and store evidence, but performers and lovers, listeners and loved ones can easily distinguish that live performance and recording of live performance are completely irrelevant.

Recording is the legacy of performance, like a sympathy letter, it is the legacy of love. When you are in love, you must not have a partner.Once there is a definite object, this love will be reduced to a milk carton, which must be stamped with an "expiration date". All immortal gods have no body, and only when they are relegated, are they forced to bear a body that will eventually decay.Think about Avalokitesvara, Sakyamuni, and Jesus, how hard they had to dismantle, discard, and destroy their fleshy bodies before they went to immortality. To fall in love, you must have someone.A lover without a partner is like a prisoner without a prison—although he is spared the pain of being imprisoned, he always feels that he has assumed a false name in vain, that he has no brains, and has been tricked by the world's good intentions.

When you are in love, you must not have a partner.Even if you insist on finding someone, you are lying to yourself-the person you claim to be in love with will never be equal to the person in your heart.What you call "that person" is just a name for your imagination, a set of features for you to give expression and voice. Why do you say "union due to misunderstanding"?Why "separate because of understanding"?It is because of this that love has an innate tendency to "identify mistakes". It is basically a misunderstanding caused by misidentification, and it cannot be taken seriously.

To fall in love, you must have someone.I have never heard of anyone who spends his whole life practicing Kung Fu in the Shaolin Wooden Man Alley and can become a master of a generation.Those who practice unrivaled martial arts without fighting against living people are definitely considered geniuses, but they are definitely not heroes either. When you are in love, you must not have a partner.Love is a magical work of the Creator, like trees, stars, and oceans.Once you start to take pictures of trees, stars, and oceans, frame them, and hang them on the wall, your understanding of the heart of creation will no longer be pure and focused; A trace of your original whole mind.

The many people you fall in love with are nothing more than these many pictures that distract you.For love, you will also lose your complete heart from now on, just like in the human library, you will never find complete "literature", only volumes of poems and small essays.