Chapter 12 Dating needs an answering machine

When you're in a relationship, use your answering machine more often.The reason is like this - when you are alerted to breaking up, the other party will usually be very alert and stop talking sweet words. At this time, it will be much more difficult for you to search for evidence for the other party's indifference , If you can be prepared for danger in times of peace and collect a few key recordings and messages, the physical evidence will be complete.As for which court to testify and accuse...I think...the only way is to go to my friend's answering machine.A friend's ear is not interested.

When in a relationship, use the answering machine sparingly.The situation is like this - if you bring your date back home, you should never listen to your answering machine in front of the other person that night, because this is what happens: the old lover you haven't contacted for three hundred years, Or a one-night stand where you obviously didn't give a phone number, and just happened to pick a day to leave you a message on the answering machine. And if the situation is already the case, if the current lover has your key and can come in and out freely, the answering machine will be even more terrifying. A radio program like "Report" or "Walk Through the Past".

The answering machine is good for love.Because people in love always like to talk about themselves, their dreams, their families, their personalities, and their past.Yes, love is inherently such a selfish thing, so if you want to be a good lover, you have to learn to forget yourself often and learn to listen more.The answering machine is a good tool for training listening.Unlike the phone, the phone at least gives you a chance to speak. The answering machine is harmful to love.Once when I just walked in the door, the answering machine was already on. I didn’t have time to turn it off, so I quickly picked up the microphone and talked to the other party. At the beginning, I was very happy, but then I was not happy, and later, I exposed Some insurmountable difficulties, and later, our relationship ended on the phone.After I hung up, of course I didn't notice that the answering machine was still on, and I didn't know that the conversation was recorded.It wasn't until I went home the next day and pressed the listening button on the answering machine that I was shocked to discover this mistake.I re-listened to this conversation from happiness to unhappiness. I heard the other party go from intimacy to indifference, and I heard myself from intimacy to indifference. I personally witnessed the process of this relationship from enthusiasm to rupture.Once again, I was reminded of the abruptness, recklessness and unreasonableness of love.

This kind of cognition is of course harmful to my love, past or future.Can the answering machine not be blamed? People who are in love need to use an answering machine, but if they don't, they can't finish their love stories. People in love, don't use the answering machine, once you use the answering machine, you can't correct your mistakes.