Chapter 28 Elderly client

Many years ago, a Call in sex counseling program broadcast at midnight could be heard in Guangzhou.One midnight, in a taxi, I heard this dialogue from the show: Female audience: "I...I am very troubled..." Host: "What troubles, let me tell you, the expert is sitting next to me, we will definitely find a way to share it for you. worry-solving. " Female audience: "The main thing is, the main reason is that my husband's request in that aspect is too frequent..." Host: "Well, can you tell me, is there a big age difference between your husband and wife?"

Female audience: "The ages are about the same. I am forty and he is forty-two." Doctor: "So, to be more specific, how often did he ask?" Female audience: "Very frequently, really frequently. This...on average twice a week." Doctor: (sympathetically) "Oh, really often." Next, through the hotline, the doctor taught the troubled woman some technical essentials to resist "excessive demands", such as "take him to participate in healthy recreational and sports activities" and so on.Of course, if the three sentences are not far from the line, if it is impossible, we must try to give him medicine. If he refuses to take it, we must find a way to quietly put the medicine in his food.

The taxi driver almost turned his back with a smile. After more than ten years, I don't know whether the evaluation criteria of the "frequency" of citizens' sexual activities by the media and "medical circles" have changed. However, similar evaluation activities are obviously continuing in different ways.My friend Xiaobao once said a joke formula: If you are 19 years old, the normal "frequency" is nine times a week, if you are 29 years old, it is nine times a week, and so on , 59 times, nine times every five weeks, 89 years old, it should be nine times every eight weeks.

Cadres come out of numbers, and dogmatism comes out of numbers. In any aspect, the situation is always better than people.A few days ago at several dinners in Hangzhou, I heard the same news: the local police arrested a 94-year-old prostitute.After returning to the hotel, I searched online, and it turned out that a Hangzhou newspaper had the following report on August 22: The afternoon before yesterday, when the police from the East Hangzhou Police Station were assisting in the investigation of a drug case, they were ordered to inspect a small hotel at Hangzhou East Railway Station.When they knocked on the door of a room on the second floor, a young woman ran out suddenly, followed by an old man with a flushed face, muttering: ashamed, ashamed.The police quickly found out what the two were doing together.This client was actually 94 years old.The policemen from the Chengdong Police Station of the Jianggan Public Security Bureau in Hangzhou said that no one would have believed that this "old man" was so old if he had not had his ID card to testify.

Interested in watching it, I browsed the same type of reports. After 60 minutes, I found that at least in the category of "whoring and prostitution", the news about "elderly whoring clients" is really not rare. During the theft, five "veteran clients" were brought out. The youngest was in his 50s, and the oldest was 75 years old.A few days ago, 4 of them were criminally detained by Gaochun police according to law.At the same time, related reports and comments also showed a high degree of uniformity in the choice of words and sentences: "The old man, the old prostitute, the pennywise prostitute, the sixty beast, and the seventy pervert, are abominable and shameful." As for The above-mentioned "group of senior prostitutes" ranging in age from their 50s to 75 years old, the reporter called them "a bunch of old and unscrupulous things".

In fact, there are a lot of whoring and prostitution activities that have been busted every day in various parts of China. Otherwise, there would be no need for the anti-pornography campaign to be unremitting.Why do the news about "elderly clients" often stand out and attract the attention of the media?Such a news orientation reflects the media itself and the public value orientation it represents. That is to say, the following factors determine the coverage of "elderly clients" in newspapers: First: Soliciting prostitutes is illegal and immoral. The elderly (according to the definition given by relevant reports, should start from the age of 50) those over 50 years old should automatically have a higher moral standard than those under 50 years old.Therefore, compared with "strong prostitutes", "medium prostitutes" and "young prostitutes", "old prostitutes" are especially criminal and immoral.Thousands of people point it out, and you will not be compensated if you scold him to death.

Second, not only should a person not have sexual ability from the age of 50, even if he has it unfortunately, he should not exercise it, and even if he exercises it unfortunately, he should not do it in a criminal way, otherwise, it is abnormal. In his nineties, even if he is not a monster.At least there are enough reasons to become a "strange news" on the social news board. Although the relevant reports did not explain whether the wives of these elderly clients are alive or not, in any case, it is illegal to visit prostitutes. As long as they are adults, the current law does not take age into account in this regard, but this does not mean that "elderly clients" Unscrupulous ageist violence is a moral act.Elderly people belonging to socially disadvantaged groups are not necessarily "potentially" weak, and even if they are weak, it does not mean that they are so weak that they do not exist at all.This is already a matter of common sense.At the very least, it is necessary to figure out the relationship between the two things of having sexual ability and having sexual power.While gladly accepting the elderly citizens of a country or a city as a positive indicator of the medical system and standard, the quality of air and food, and even the social system and kindness of the people, I obviously don't want to read about "a group of old and unscrupulous people in the newspapers." Even if the prostitute who is caught on the spot next time is a hundred-year-old, even if this matter is not enough to be regarded as a positive representative of the sexual ability of the elderly residents of a certain city, being old and able to prostitute is not something "old" Do something", we should at least behave a little bit more kindly, to save some face and a way out for others and our respective futures.