Chapter 10 men's stage

Master Liu Jialiang, who is bravely fighting cancer, was interviewed by a Hong Kong reporter in Sin Chew. When talking about the two marriages in his life, he said: "I just acted from one stage to another." Men and women have very different views on marriage.Men regard marriage as a stage, and they must perform a marriage drama in their life. The husband is the role they play, and the wife is the opponent and the audience. What maintains a marriage is not love, but tolerance, praise, accommodation and respect. The so-called tolerance, accommodating, praise, and respect are to bury inner feelings and act out a play hypocritically.

The most responsible behavior for a man is to try to play his part well and make his opponents and audience happy. For a man to be fully engaged in acting, his opponents and the audience must give him applause and encouragement. Then, when the man returns to the stage, removes the heavy costume, wipes off the makeup on his face, and is exhausted physically and mentally, he still feels it is worth it. To carry this burden. A man is afraid of divorce because he understands that no matter how magnificent the other stage is, his task is still to act, do somersaults, and dance the flag, so what is the difference?

Marriage is a woman who puts her happiness in the hands of a man, and a man who puts her freedom in the hands of a woman. Women don't think that marriage is a drama, how can happiness be a drama?What they want is not the stage, but the backstage, with a man behind her to support her. A man's remarriage is performed from one stage to another. When a woman remarries, she jumps from one background to another.