Chapter 171 Keep happiness and unhappiness to yourself

Once, when I was eating, I was emotional because of some unhappy things. I cried while eating, and I had to wipe the tears with a napkin in embarrassment.People around me said: "Happiness and unhappiness should be kept to yourself." I don't know if this sentence is a comfort or a lesson.Maybe, he's right. When you are happy, you don't need to show off to others. When you are unhappy, don't complain to others. Everyone has their own troubles, and it would be very pitiful if we had to bear the troubles of others.Who is not troubled?That day, I was talking on the phone with a friend. I was annoyed by some things and wanted to hear other people's opinions.He was in the office, and his work was piled up like a mountain. After I said a few words, I felt a little guilty.

"Let's not talk about it." I said. "Speak, I'm listening." He said softly.In the end, he gave me valuable advice. Yes, everyone has troubles.However, when we listen to other people's troubles and help them solve some problems, our own troubles seem to be relieved a little. When you are happy, it is interesting to share with others. When we are unhappy, someone comforts us, and we have the courage to face it. People who keep happiness and unhappiness to themselves are rational but lonely.I still can't do it.