Chapter 167 what can we plan

I have always admired those who do things step by step and plan carefully, but I am not such a person at all. They also have a plan when they talk about love.Everyone agreed on when to buy a house, when to get married, when to have children, and when to change to a bigger house.They have even planned how many trips they will take a year, how much they can buy each year, and when they will retire.Then life goes according to plan. It is of course happiness to be able to live a smooth and stable life. Why have I never had this kind of thought? Work can be planned, however, feelings are often out of plan.

I always feel like everything is fleeting except for work.Love and friendship seem to last for a long time, but sometimes they are just a fleeting moment. At work, you can have many goals and ideals.What can you aim for in a lover?I love you so much today that you can't let go, he can't wait to pass through your body, and you can't wait to swallow him in your stomach.Tomorrow, however, you and he may fall in love with someone else.When we meet again, looking back suddenly, the past feelings, even if they are as long as five or ten years, are as short as morning dew. As long as it will be lost, it cannot be said to last forever.

What can we plan?All plans are just wrestling with the impermanence of life.Success or failure does not depend on how perfect your plan is.