Chapter 154 ways to make yourself happy

I have always respected my cousin very much.He's a bit older than me.When I was born, he had already come out to work in society.I don't have an older brother. Since I was a child, my cousin is like my elder brother and also my elder.When I was growing up, he was what I strived for.Mom and Dad often ask me to learn from my cousin.He is filial, smart, diligent in studying, good in character, and caring for his family.If it weren't for his example, I might not have worked so hard. A few years ago, he encountered many setbacks, including emotional and health.Later, he stood up again.For me, that's a miracle.I had dinner with him earlier, and he told me that he is very happy now.He once woke up laughing in a dream.

I was relieved to hear that. At my father's birthday party, he told about some new plans, but he was worried that he would start a business at his current age, which seemed a bit late.I encouraged him by saying: "You are still very young!" Before Christmas, we spoke on the phone, and he was a little bit down at work.I said, "Don't you have a lot of plans yourself?" He sighed, "When you still have a lot of burdens on your shoulders, you don't just walk away." I have never doubted his intelligence and ability, but it is true that life cannot always follow one's inclinations.The only way to make yourself happier is to do things you can control.Forget about the things you can't control, it's no use grieving over those things.