Chapter 146 dream come true is the greatest love

Two people who love each other, one of them dies, what about the remaining one?Should we die together, stay, or love another? I just saw the seventh chapter of "Poems at the End of the Century", which is to discuss this issue.The professor in the play said: "It is love that can continue to survive." What he probably meant was: After the death of a lover, the one who has the courage to live alone is true love.Love is what makes a man strong. Recently I was reading "Living Happier" co-authored by the Dalai Lama and Dr. Howard Cutler, which also discusses this issue.The Dalai Lama said that losing the will to live after the death of a loved one is not love.Love is to survive the death of the lover, and to practice the dream of the other person during his lifetime.

The greatest love is to fulfill the dream that he cannot fulfill for the one he loves. Depression and nostalgia for the joys of the past are not the deepest and deepest love.You go, I come to realize your dream, that is my affection for you. Women always hope to die first than the man they love, so that they don't have to bear the pain of losing him.Such thinking is cowardly.But I'm such a coward!It would be different if we had a common dream.If one of us wants to live to the end, it should be the one who is most capable of fulfilling the other's dream.This person, is it me or you?