Chapter 78 memories are unique

Everyone's memories are unique, no matter joy or sorrow, no one else can understand and feel.Time passes between us and also creates a divide between people. What my father often talks about is the bleakness of losing his father when he was nine years old.He didn't know how many times he repeated this thing in his life.When he was happy and when he was frustrated, he also mentioned it again.He is even showing off, telling us that he has survived such days.Now we are really very happy. Unfortunately, it is impossible for us to understand his pain at that time.We can imagine, but not feel.We always say how happy our next generation is. As the next generation, we will not understand the mood of the previous generation.

Likewise, we tend to confide our resentments or grievances to our friends in a fluttering manner.We think that a friend must be on our side. However, that friend cannot feel the same as us. All he can do is listen or comfort.Some people keep repeating a past event to others.That memory is unforgettable for him, and it is worth recalling again and again over the years, but others find it boring. Even if that incident happened today, when we relay it to a friend, he cannot possibly feel the same way we do.How arrogant are we to think we can infect others?Perhaps for this reason, we are more eager for love.The person who loves you will deeply understand your feelings, not your wishful thinking.