Chapter 33 leave troubles to your confidant

Things sometimes go like this: there is one person we love, and another person we talk about everything about.We don't fall in love with the one who talks about everything, but we don't talk about everything with the person we love. When we first fell in love, I wished I could tell him nothing.Later, I learned what to say and what not to say.Because, sometimes he is jealous and worried.Sometimes, I have to explain to him again.Sometimes, everyone has different opinions and even quarrels.If there is any small problem with him, I don't know how to solve it, so of course I can only talk to my good friend.If you talk to him, maybe you will quarrel again.

Two people can become lovers because they are in love with each other and want to share the same bed with each other.Two people don't have to be exactly alike, and the other person doesn't have to be the best person to talk to. Be able to become confidantes with a person of the opposite sex, because the other person is the best person to confide in.You don't have to worry about him getting jealous, and you won't argue with him over disagreements.You appreciate his analytical skills, and he is open to hearing from you.However, you won't feel a desire to share the same bed with each other.

There is a little difference between a confidant and a lover.Selfishly speaking, we will leave problems and troubles to our bosom friends, and time and tenderness to our lovers.A lover is used to love me and accompany me, and a confidant is used to encourage me and listen to my complaints.A lover is a life partner, and a confidant is far away.With that little distance, on the contrary, we can talk about everything.