Chapter 28 I'd rather be riddled with holes

When a person tells you that you are too perfect for him to love you, have you ever thought that this is just an excuse? Because he can't fall in love with you, he can only reject you like this. It's not that you're bad, it's that you're simply too good.It's not that you are not good enough for him, but that he is not good enough for you. This excuse not only saved your self-esteem, but also saved everyone's friendship.We can be friends with a perfect person, but we cannot love a perfect person. If he says that he can't be with you because you are too perfect, then just believe it!

What's wrong with being perfect?That's better than "I'm not right for you.", "I'm sorry, I don't like you.", "I already have someone I love." These words are much more beautiful. How can there be a perfect person in the world?All perfection is but a contrast.You love him, he doesn't love you, this is a contrast.You who are not loved by him are pitifully perfect.Be loved by you, proudly imperfect. When we are loved by others, we can ask each other vigorously: "Why do you love me? Many people are better than me! Soon you will find that I am not as perfect as you think!"

We don't aspire to perfection, that's out of reach.Can be loved by you, so what's the problem?However, you said I was too perfect.What you said is a lie that I will never believe.