Chapter 19 only willing to explain to myself

A friend returned from Canada.When I went to her house for dinner that night, I saw her two daughters for the first time, one is eight years old and the other is six years old, they are very cute.The elder sister is beautiful, the younger sister is ghostly. When asked what kind of work she wanted to look for when she came back, she said: "I really want to do some more upright work." Her former circle had a high salary, but it was a circle of reality, snobbery, and intrigue.After becoming a mother, she changed.In the future, whatever work you do, you must also imagine it for your children.The work of mothers and fathers should be honored by the children.Not the honor brought by money or status, but the righteousness.

Having children can change your life. Those two little girls were beyond adorable.I figured if I had two little kids bouncing around all day, my life would be over. Everyone also has different choices, it is hard to say which kind of life is happier, I only know which kind of life is quieter. A friend said: "I have immigrated to a foreign country for several years, and my old classmates have already held important positions, but I am not." I said, "But you won a marriage." What she won was not only a marriage, but also two daughters, and another life. In the past, when she was working hard, how could she have thought that one day, she would have to explain her life to her children?

I am selfish, only willing to explain to myself.