Chapter 15 Happiness being exploited

When we were young, we were angry when we found out that we were being used.If it weren't for the people around you, it would be impossible to use you.How unacceptable is it to be taken advantage of by those around you?We will never forgive each other in our lives. When we grow up and are taken advantage of, we have two different minds. Thinking pessimistically, we feel that we are stupid and naive, and we lose confidence in people from then on. Thinking optimistically, it is not bad to have the value of being used by others!No one is using you, so you are not necessarily very good.When you think this way, you no longer feel stupid.

When you grow up a bit, if you are used by a friend, you have to see how he uses you first, and then decide how to deal with him. He's a poor guy, if he wants to use you for some advantage, forget it. Although he took advantage of you, you asked yourself that you didn't pay him anything.Since you didn't pay, don't be sad. He used you, but didn't hurt you, so forget it. When you get older and someone takes advantage of you, you don't care so much anymore.How sad it is for a person to survive by using his friends?You sympathize with him and are thankful that you never had to take advantage of your friends.How blessed is it to never have such a need in your life?