Chapter 57 Women's Contradictions

Would you rather have a man you love who is false and makes you happy, or who is honest and makes you sad? When a man abandons his family for another woman, another love, other men say he is stupid. They said: "If you have extramarital affairs, you don't have to tell yourself, just tell your wife everything!" As a man, you should understand that sex and affection outside of marriage will never last forever, so how can you act emotionally? Everything outside turns out to be a mirror image, and the poor man will end up with nothing.As for other men, they keep having extramarital affairs, but they can treat their wives properly and make her happy, making her think that her husband is the most steadfast man in the world, comparable to Tang Sanzang.The other men agreed that he was smart and sensible.They plausibly say: "Cheating a woman for ten years can make her happy for ten years, which is better than hurting her once and making her suffer for ten years!"

However, how can you tell the difference between a man who is right and wrong, if he is not hypocritical? A man who dares to confess his true feelings cannot bear to deceive a woman, nor does he want to deceive himself, and would rather be honest. If it was in the past, I would have no hesitation in choosing an honest man who made me sad, because I hate lies. As I grew older, I was afraid that I would not be able to bear the truth.This may be a woman's contradiction.