Chapter 50 there is always wishful thinking

There may not be an absolute contradiction between mutual affection and wishful thinking. Even if two affections are happy, there are moments of wishful thinking.In the property dispute case involving the descendants of a wealthy businessman, the concubine said that she did not inform her of her husband's marriage because "he was afraid that I would be unhappy!" Others disagreed. He was so rich and powerful, and the concubine relied on him to live. How could he Afraid that she will be unhappy?It's just wishful thinking on her part. I thought of the late Inspector Hua's three concubines, she said: "Although he has many women, he treats me best."

There is no wishful thinking in this memory? We turn fantasies into facts, beautify everything the other party does wishful thinking, guess what he means, understand it without asking for proof, and create a relationship. If the two continue to be happy, the wishful thinking may never be exposed, but once they break up, they will have their own positions. The woman said: "At the beginning he took the initiative to pursue me and tried every means to impress me, but now he is so decisive!" The man said: "When she took the initiative to pursue me, I should have refused. I was too soft-hearted and didn't want to hurt her."

As an outsider, he really doesn't know who is right and who is wrong. Maybe what the two parties say is what he thinks is the truth, and his memory always has blind spots. The woman said, "It was he who first noticed me." The man said: "She did everything possible to attract my attention." In the end, the two are happy because of those wishful thinking, it is best not to testify.