Chapter 35 Is it wrong for me to love like this?

One day, feeling unreasonably sad, I shook the phone and gave him a call on a day when I would not normally talk on the phone. He was already choked up before he could speak, so he asked me: "Is it a car crash? Scolding the boss? Is it uncomfortable?" Oh, not at all. "Just wanted to hear your voice!" "Then why are you crying?" "After hearing your voice, I was very touched, so I couldn't help but cry!" I am actually a person who is very afraid of loneliness, who is not afraid of loneliness? Positive love theorists say that love should not be loved out of fear of loneliness, loneliness, or isolation.

However, if there is such a person who makes you no longer feel lonely, alone, or isolated, why can't you love? Even if friends hug each other, if there is no one who loves them, it will only be more lonely. Positive love theorists also say that we should love because we want to give love, not because we want to receive love. However, if there is such a person who makes you eagerly long for his love, why not love him? What a bright love, one day, it will all be down to earth, why set the standard too high?What is wrong with loving someone who can make you no longer lonely because you are afraid of being lonely, and loving him because you want his love?