Chapter 68 too long or too short

I often hear people sigh: "I have been with him for ten years, can I still leave him?" "It's been fifteen years, and there are a lot of unhappiness, but I have spent a lot of youth on him..." "It's been twenty years, and he's not always good to me, but if I leave him, is there any chance for me to find someone better than him?" The person who said these words was not old at all. Ten years with a man is indeed a long time, but is ten years a long time?If you look back, you are only twenty-seven years old. Although ten years is a long time, but if you look forward, ten years is actually very short.

Twenty years may seem like a long time, it takes up most of your past years, but if you look forward, if you have seventy years of life, you are now thirty-six years old, you still have thirty-four years, compared to twenty There are fourteen more years, why can't you make a more rational decision? Instead of sitting and lamenting the passing time, it is better to face the future bravely.When two people live happily together and grow up together, ten, fifteen, and twenty years seem like yesterday.If you are not happy just because you are used to it or because you are stubborn and refuse to separate, then you will only feel more difficult in the years to come.

Next time, when you say that the time is too long, you might as well think about it, is it too long or too short compared to your lifetime?