Chapter 33 farewell to friendship years

When I went to the restaurant that day, I saw three women at the next table having dinner together. They kept talking about closing. I used to have this kind of friendship too, many years ago, I used to spend an evening like this with two good friends.I remember one night, just after breaking up with my boyfriend, I asked them to have tea in the hotel lobby. It was a broken relationship, but I didn’t feel any sadness at all. Being able to chat with three women together made me feel relieved, and the world was still vast. Since a certain day, there have been no more such gatherings, and to be clear, there is no such kind of friendship anymore.That night, when I saw the three women talking so speculatively, about men, about work, and about irrelevant things, I suddenly felt very disappointed.Some friendships will never come back after passing away. Becoming a good friend with someone is also an opportunity and cannot be forced.Several women can walk together every night and talk about everything, there must be three things in common.

First of all, they are all lovelorn or have no boyfriend.Women's friendships often start with a broken relationship, if one of them has a boyfriend.It is best for the other two to have boyfriends, so that everyone can have a common topic. Secondly, it is best for their fortunes to be similar, with similar positions, similar salaries, and similar prospects, so that they can confide in each other.If one day, everyone starts to hide their income, this friendship will not stand the test. The last point is that all three must be equally happy or equally unhappy.It is impossible for one unhappy woman to conspire with two happy women.

It takes so many conditions to spend countless nights together, maybe, we shouldn't be too demanding.Being able to have a period of friendship and comfort each other in times of loneliness or grief, there should be no regrets.These are all part of growing up.