Chapter 12 don't interrogate him

Some women keep complaining that their husbands or boyfriends don't tell her anything.Does the woman know that this is actually caused by herself? When the man happily said: "When I was drinking with Ah Zhong that day—" before the man finished speaking, the woman immediately interrogated him: "When did you go drinking with Ah Zhong? Why didn't I know?" The man had no choice but to say disappointedly: "Isn't it just Tuesday night?" As soon as a woman hears about Tuesday night, she confronts a man: "Didn't you say you had to work overtime that day?"

The man was speechless. He didn't dare to say anything interesting that happened that night. The woman didn't give up, and continued to ask: "Aside from Ah Zhong, who else is there? Are there any women? Where are you drinking?" Hearing this, the man felt like a deflated ball, and he didn't want to tell the woman what happened in the future.He originally wanted to share with her, but instead he was interrogated by her and then had to explain to her.Why is he asking for trouble?Better not tell her at all. If a woman wants a man to tell you anything, it's best to remember that when he says he had tea with someone, don't ask him what day it is.When he said that he had dinner with someone that day, don't ask him where he ate.When he said that he drank with so-and-so that night, don't ask him who that so-and-so is.Time, place, people, what matters?The most important thing is that he can share with you without fear of being interrogated.

It is the job of the judge to interrogate a person.It's not a woman's job.