Chapter 88 friends are better than enemies

B met a former good friend on the street, and he said: "I deliberately turned around and left to prevent him from seeing me. Why do we need to meet up and play a hypocritical scene? I will not forgive him for betraying me in the past, and he should know it well." A few days later, B met his enemy on the street, who had done many things to attack him before. When B saw him, instead of avoiding him, he even came forward to greet him, and the two exchanged a few polite words. B said: "Forget it. He used to treat me like this for his own benefit. People are always selfish."

Forgiving an enemy is often easier than forgiving a friend. We have never paid affection to our enemies, but to our friends, we may have given the most sincere affection.If you give, you hope to get something in return. Forgiving an enemy is a manifestation of demeanor and capacity; we can forgive an enemy, that is, we feel that we are above him, have the right to forgive him, and even pity him and forgive him, but we do not have the same knowledge as him. But we are very petty towards our friends, to forgive him is to indulge him, and to consider ourselves a fool.He knows too much about me, I ask him differently, and he should treat me differently, so it's hard to forgive a friend who treats us badly.

Next time, when you can't forgive a friend, don't beat yourself up, it's human nature.