Chapter 60 another man role

V said that she would not tell her boyfriend about work matters, she would only talk to another man.That man is her good friend.She would tell him stories about her childhood.She has read a wonderful book and will share a booth with him.She wrote a diary and would read it to him over the phone.When she heard a good song, she would take the phone to the record player and ask him to listen to it. Then what does she want her boyfriend to do? she says.I didn't talk to him about work because I was afraid he would feel bored.She didn't tell him about her childhood, because she was afraid he would find it boring.

As for not sharing the content of a book with him, not reading a section of my diary to him, not playing a song she thinks is beautiful for him to enjoy, she said, it is because you love someone more.The more you fear he will disagree with you.What if he said that the book was not good-looking? The more nervous you are about being alone, the more afraid you are that he won't appreciate you.If he just smiled and said nothing after listening to the diary passage you wrote, how do you know what is going on in his heart? The more you care about a person, the more you are afraid that he will laugh at you.If he listens to that song and says it's mediocre and he's heard better ones, you're going to be very upset.

We are a little cowardly in front of the people we love.The role of another man is to fill these regrets.