Chapter 56 Think of it as rhetoric

A boy wrote to say that his girlfriend said he was fine, that he was very happy and safe with him, but there was no feeling of love.She was leaving, he asked: "Can you tell me what love feels like?" The so-called feeling, you take it as a kind of rhetoric. The word "feeling" can be added to anything, but it's okay to take these two words away. What she said, taking away the rhetoric, meant this: "You are good to me, happy to be with you, very safe, but I just don't love you." Just because someone treats you well doesn't mean you will love him.

She said she was happy with you, but I don't believe it's 100% true.Every girl will say this when rejecting a good boy, just like when you go to a friend's house to play, when you leave, you will definitely say: "I had a good time today." By saying this, I thank him for his hospitality. Doesn't mean you're actually having a good time. She said it feels safe to be with you.There is of course a sense of security around a man who likes himself, because he pays more than you.He is your patron saint.A woman needs a patron saint, but she may not necessarily fall in love with him.

A couple who used to be in love to death may say sadly when they break up: "I don't have that feeling anymore—" What do you think that feeling is?People who have loved before can't say the words "I don't love you", so they have to use rhetoric.