Chapter 53 him in memory

Sometimes, what we love is not the person in reality, but him in memory. When we first met, his smile, his affection, commitment and foolishness in the past, and the beautiful moments we spent together are all imprinted in our memories. Today’s relationship is not as good as before, but we love him in the past, Reluctant to leave. A man said that during those days when the relationship between the two parties was like a pool of stagnant water, the girlfriend who lived with him also read the love letters he had written to her in front of him every day.She read the letters calmly, but actually protested silently to him.He used to be so good to her, he used to give her page after page of affection, but today he forgot the promise in the letter.She deliberately read the letter in front of him, mourning the lost relationship.She loves him more in her memories.

What he loves, isn't she the one in his memory? In that beautiful memory, there is a dazzling halo on his head, and a beautiful wreath around her neck. As time goes on, each other has more and more expectations and requirements for the person they love deeply, and there are more and more expectations. More dissatisfaction.The halos and garlands gradually become a tight ring. In the disappointment again and again, everyone can only go back to the long-term memories, and use the memories to support a love that is increasingly pale and desolate. The lover in memory is always better than reality.What we miss is the person in our memories, even if that person has changed.