Chapter 49 stay with yourself

Previous marriages were longer.Not so many people get divorced, could it be because people in the past lived shorter lives? The so-called one-life couples may only be husbands and wives of thirty to forty years.The time limit of one lifetime is coming soon.Even if you are dissatisfied with your partner, you will endure it for a while. Thirty years will pass in a flash.At the age of fifty, even though there are many dissatisfaction with this marriage, thinking that I have almost run out of oil, I will endure it. With the advancement of medicine today, it is not surprising for a person to live to be eighty or ninety years old.The so-called one-life couple is no longer thirty or forty years, but five or sixty years.It's fifty or sixty years, how can I endure it willingly?When a person reaches fifty, he is still very young.Fifty-year-old men and women can still find love, they have thirty or forty years of life.That being the case, it is better to end an unsatisfactory marriage and start over.

Our previous generation, at the age of 50, would have thought that we could start all over again? Our generation is, after all, happier.However, we also have our sorrows.In the past, the so-called staying together was at most 30 to 40 years, but now it is 50 or 60 years.It takes five to sixty years to keep a promise, and five to sixty years to love someone. Who can guarantee that they can do it? Today's long-term stay together is just doing our best. The safest and most timely way is to stay with yourself.