Chapter 28 love is always conditional

Don't say you love someone unconditionally, love is always conditional. You don't need anything, but you want him to love you, isn't that a condition? There are conditions for parents to love their children. The condition is that they must be his children. If they are other people's children, he will not love them and will not protect them with his life. The girl said: "I really love him unconditionally, I don't even need him to love me." Yes, even if he doesn't love her, she is still willing to stay by his side for the rest of her life, she loves his talent.If he had no talent, would she still love him like that without hesitation?Not anymore.Her love is still conditional.

A woman can love a man who is useless, he has no talent and no future.The woman said: "Isn't that considered unconditional?" But she wanted him to promise to be with her forever, and to promise to correct his shortcomings.It takes a man to commit.If this is not a condition, what is it? The man said: "I just love her." If she wasn't ugly, if she wasn't so smart, if she didn't have the personality he likes, would he still love her?She has to meet his conditions to be loved. Each of us is loved conditionally, and we love others conditionally.Don't be disheartened.Now that you know that there is no unconditional love in the world, you should try to make yourself more qualified to be loved, and at the same time learn to forget some conditions to love someone.