Chapter 11 Forgiveness is conditional

Sometimes, we are willing to forgive a person, not because we are really willing to forgive him, but because we don't want to lose him.I don't want to lose him, so I can only pretend to forgive him. He has a third, and we sadly say, "I forgive you." We just don't want to lose to a third. The so-called forgiveness is also very realistic.I had no choice but to forgive him.If you need him financially, you can only forgive him.If you depend on him emotionally, you can only forgive him.Forgiveness is conditional.However, this kind of pretended forgiveness often cannot last long.

You generously forgave him when you needed it the most, when you were competing with a third party.Once he stays with you, you will start to be reconciled.You don't want to forgive him, you can't lie to yourself.A love can be restarted by love, but not by forgiveness. When he said: "I have no feeling of love for you." Can you still forgive him?This can also forgive him, you are so sorry for yourself. The girl who signed M said that she has been with her boyfriend for eight years, and she has forgiven him for infidelity time and time again.She doesn't want to forgive him anymore.He was attractive and wealthy, and he had been taking care of her financially, but she no longer cared about that.She bought a new bed, cut her long hair short, went to a healthy dance, went to further studies...

She speaks well and I think she's a great example of a lovelorn.When a man no longer loves you, you will not spend his money happily.All forgiveness, whether real or pretended, should also have a limit.