Chapter 26 Chapter 26: Love needs to pay attention to the method

Friends, it is a beautiful thing for two people to love each other. Although it is a beautiful thing, we must pay attention to the way. Sometimes it is too passionate, and it loses the implicit beauty of love. Perhaps the reason for the faster and faster social development is that lovers are getting more and more daring now, and sometimes they dare to express their affection in front of the eyes of many passengers on the bus.Looking at the sticky appearance of their shoulders and necks touching their faces, I blushed in surprise and even a little panic, as if I was doing something nasty myself.Sometimes when you go to the university campus, you can even see this kind of "sticky" among the students. Under the bushes, male and female students embrace their shoulders and waists, which makes you stunned; I took one bite at a time like a young couple.

When I was studying, not to mention falling in love, even talking to female classmates made me blush.At that time, men and women fell in love, just like thieves doing bad things, hiding in the depths of the bushes, in dark corners or in the dark night.No matter how passionate the relationship is, never dare to be intimate in broad daylight. Today's youth are a hundred times braver and opener than us, and even love shows transparency.However, I do not appreciate the intimacy and lingering in broad daylight.The first time I saw a man and a woman twisted like snakes on the bus, my surprise was tinged with indignation, my astonishment tinged with doubt, and my panic tinged with embarrassment for them.I believe that love contains passionate and exciting kisses, and it also contains mystery. Being too casual at any time is similar to a kind of sickness.

I also have a very personal opinion: I always feel that those young men who are cuddled and lingering and sticky are useless, weak and incompetent, and hopeless.You may refute my point of view, but the "lingering slime" living around me proves that my point of view is correct.Of course, now that there are more and more stalkers on the bus or in public places, I'm not used to it either.I think, let's just look at a pair of little rabbits, puppies and small animals. However, once on a train, a man and a woman on the opposite seat behaved clingy, and they clung to each other from the moment they got on the train, as if there were no other passengers in the whole carriage.The problem was that there were many schoolchildren sitting around them, and pairs of big eyes on their little heads blinked bewilderedly.I finally couldn't bear it anymore, so I tried my best to say a few words to these two forgetful lovers in a humorous tone. I said that you two are definitely love champions. I matured and grew up all at once... I tried my best to use a smile and a gentle tone.But the faces of the two young men and women blushed suddenly, and they separated quickly as if they had been hit by a stick, and they sat upright, not only were they no longer affectionate with each other, they were even so serious that they seldom spoke.Later, the young woman went to the toilet with an excuse, and stood at the hook in the aisle of the carriage for a long time and did not come back.The young man grabbed a newspaper and read it endlessly, never daring to look up at me.I was suddenly embarrassed and moved. I felt that my interference was a little too much, like a pair of chirping birds who were in love with each other, and I beat them flying southeast with a stick.

I don't think I should be too picky about the way of love. The way and a person's quality are probably not the same thing.So I closed my eyes hard, and kept closing them until I got out of the car, so that the two poor birds could regain some freedom. No matter how the content of love is the same, the way of love will also vary widely.Either because of personality or temper, or because of cultural accomplishment, or because of differences in objective conditions, whether it is the love of parents, the love of relatives and friends, or the love of lovers, they will not be expressed in the same way.For example, some parents dote on and serve their children carefully all day long, while some beat, scold and scold them strictly, some teach them rationally, and some let their children run their own course.For example, the friendship between relatives and friends, some are very enthusiastic, and they care about everything at the moment; You will die or live in minutes, as an ancient poem sings: A day without seeing is like three autumns! ... In contrast, young men mostly value the content of love, and girls mostly value the form of love.Girls who like to be lingering always try to force the person they love to be as lingering as possible to her. They often hear girls scolding the person they love-you don't have time to accompany me, you can at least call and say something gentle!However, girls who like warm and straightforward emotions hate the other party's stickiness, almost hate gentleness, and are often impatient with the other party who meets frequently, making the young man think that the girl doesn't love him anymore, and the appointment becomes more and more serious Work harder, and the result is even more unlucky.

The form is the form, but the difference in the form of love can affect the content.There are countless young men and women who were originally in love with each other, but because of the backlog of self-love in different ways, it caused a tragedy that they went their separate ways.Speaking of this, I think of the lingering person mentioned above. In fact, one should not be too picky. Sometimes the two fall in love so much that they probably forget whether it is a bus or a train. If you lock someone else up, you can't "get away with it".There are endless temptations in the outside world, feasting and feasting, handsome men and beautiful women are dizzying.And you can't be distracted, and you can't pick that tempting fruit intentionally or unintentionally.