Chapter 24 Chapter 24: The Philosophy of Love

In the long journey of life, childhood is a picture of innocence; youth is a curious diary; youth is a lyrical poem; adulthood is an essay; middle age is a novel; old age is an essay; life Each stage has a special artistic conception, forming the whole life is a colorful mental and physical process.Among them, the most pure feelings are bred in the picturesque youth.First love is a budding flower of emotion, timid and shy, immature and cowardly, unbearable to the wind and rain, easy to drift away with the wind, leaving a touch of melancholy.This is just a kind of childish longing and fantasy about the opposite sex in puberty.

The relationship between a man and a woman is subtle. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Men and women in love are intoxicated in poetic and picturesque fantasies. They only see the beautiful side of each other, looking at flowers in the mist, separated by a layer of hazy and mysterious beauty.It was only after marriage that she realized that the Prince Charming in her heart turned out to be a stupid cow, and she who once bowed down under her miniskirt was not the incarnation of Venus.The happiness of marriage is not a gift from God, it needs both parties to work together to cultivate, to tolerate each other's shortcomings, to improve one's own personality, to learn from each other, like two polygonal stones colliding together, the more rounded they are, the more perfect they will gradually become.

Some people say: Men and women get married because of misunderstanding, and divorce because of understanding.Someone said: Women are loved, not understood.Really intriguing question.If you really get divorced because of understanding, I would rather not understand and just love.Newlyweds, Qingqing, me, and me, occasionally have a little disagreement, but it is just a wave of emotional ripples. Immediately after the rain, the sky clears up, and apologizing to each other adds to the fun.Soon, the child came, too busy to cause disturbances, a poem of youth is easy to recite the past. The novels of the prime of life are colorful. Life in this period is like the middle game of a chess game, with ever-changing conditions, turbulent winds and clouds, sudden emergence, success or failure, and unpredictable. No matter how this novel is written, we always hope that the hero and heroine There is a beginning and an end, overcome all obstacles, take care of the boat of love, and get through it safely.In today's society, most men and women have jobs after marriage. Women go out of the kitchen and contact social groups. They also have a more cheerful view on the friendship between men and women. They don't have to be suspicious of their husbands' social interactions. Of course, men are 100% at ease with their wives. , a successful marriage is based on mutual respect and trust, but also depends on the self-respect and self-love of both parties.

Middle age is the autumn of life, when the mind is mature, the children grow up, the career is successful, the economy is rich, and from then on the smooth road of life.The prose should be written effortlessly, effortlessly, and narcissistically.However, if you take it lightly and don't restrain it, you may also have extra problems, unprovoked turmoil, and touch the emotional reef.Modern people have extended life expectancy, good looks, middle-aged mind and body, prosperous career, excess energy, occasional drama in the social arena, feasting and ecstasy. The so-called "forty without confusion" sometimes seems unreliable. !The times are different, I am afraid that this sense of pride should be discounted, right?

Husband and wife often have some differences in their views on love and friendship. If the two concepts are confused, it is easy to cause misunderstanding and quarrel in vain.Especially women are more narrow-minded, and they tend to be suspicious. The more they think about it, the more wrong they become. Suspicions abound, so they come to check on the phone, make surprise inspections, and even secretly follow them, acting out detective novels.Men are also very paranoid. They are very worried about beautiful wives who are doing things outside. They make a lot of guesses and doubts all day long.In fact, as long as you have confidence, trust each other, and have a clear distinction between friendship and love, you won't be bothered and troubled by others.

Friendship and love are good companions for lonely souls in the journey of life. Friendship is as light as tea, while love is as thick as wine. Good tea is fragrant and thirst-quenching, and good wine is mellow and intoxicating.It is a rare fortune in life to have the opportunity to meet a few bosom friends. Although there is no harm in tasting a lot of tea, good wine should not be drunk casually. Only two people treasure the happy wine. You can drink it lightly, affectionately, and slowly to taste. Therefore, this autumn prose requires the loyal cooperation of two people, so that it can be written neatly, open-minded, elegant and unrestrained, with a direct and meaningful taste.

When the sunset is infinitely good and we grow old together, the aroma of tea and wine has been thoroughly tasted, there is true meaning in it, and the words are forgotten if you want to argue, only the philosophical situation of smiling and not answering each other. Meng Jiangnv's regret is tragic, and the Great Wall is overwhelmed by it; The regrets of Liang Zhu are colorful, and the dancing butterflies are their eternal chant; The regret of Cowherd and Weaver Girl is vast, and the vast Milky Way is staring at it every night without sleep; The regret of the white lady is lingering, and the sparkling blue waves of the West Lake are her beautiful sadness.

The incompleteness of love shows the strength and depth of love, thus becoming a love classic.