Chapter 5 Section 5: Love is a kind of tolerance

Friends, if a person has not received true love in the season of love, or missed true love in his whole life, it is not only a great regret in life, but also a painful thing. There should be no resentment between those who have loved each other.Cherish the love you once had, find the reason for the loss of love from your own perspective, and think more about the other party.If you can do this, the love you have had is true and precious.On the contrary?You have to ask yourself: Did I really love him (her)? I saw such a story in a novel: the love and family life of a middle-aged female intellectual.Due to different ideas and misunderstandings, she broke up with her husband.When her husband became an entrepreneur overseas and came back to her after a lot of troubles in life, when they reunited at the seaside where they had so much longing for life, he sincerely confessed to her from the bottom of his heart and asked her Do you still blame him?She uttered a sentence from the bottom of her heart: I have always believed that between people who have truly loved each other, there should only be fulfillment, and there should be no resentment.

It's a pity that we often read such news in the newspapers: A certain young man, because his love partner broke up with him (her), used various cruel methods to retaliate: some slanderers, some beaters, There are disfigured people, and they even kill people.People who have done this kind of thing will say that it is because they love each other too much.Self-reflection has reached such a "noble" "state", and there is no choice but to accept legal sanctions. Falling in love is a matter between two people. Neither party can impose it on the other party, and neither party can regard the other party as its "private property".Falling in love is a process, and through this process, the love will deepen and reach mutual union to form a family; after this process, it may be terminated because it is considered unsuitable as a lifelong partner after getting to know each other better.Everything is within reason.Even if the other party has failed you, there is no need to force it. What comes through force is definitely not love.Falling in love is a kind of fate. If you are destined to meet thousands of miles away, if you don't have a destiny, you will often miss it.

Therefore, love can be met but not sought, let alone forced.Loving each other is a kind of dedication, a kind of tolerance, and we should always put the other party first, not ask for it.Falling in love is a splendid chapter in life, but it is not the whole of life.Therefore, there is no need to destroy one's spiritual support for the loss of love.Once you figure this out, you will become more open-minded. Maybe you are too far away from me to hear my confide to you, but in order to express my love for you, I will still use the wings of the wind to convey my concern and miss to you.