Chapter 3 Chapter 3: Love is a haze

Friends, in this world, perhaps the most difficult thing to explain clearly is love.It is precisely because of the unique hazy beauty of love that literati decipher her with beautiful words, dedicating a large number of famous works to the human world. Some people say that people who are in first love don't understand love, so there is a movie called "We Don't Know Love in First Love".But this bad movie can't answer the question of love at all. So, who can really understand love? In fact, when a person can understand all the details of love like an X-ray perspective, he must be like an octogenarian sitting in front of the fireplace and looking back on childhood fun.In other words, only those who have completed the love journey will know love deeply, and those who have not completed the love journey are more or less love blind.Therefore, we seem to be able to judge in this way: the vitality of love lies in not knowing love, in obscurity, in plausibility, in speculation, in jealousy, in heartbeat and shyness.When a person finishes reading the book of love, that is when he (she) bids farewell to love.

The degree of love between two people will not be absolutely equal, and they will not burn each other with 100% love, and it is not even that both parties are on fire.If one is fire, the other is ice or rock.Ice can either be melted by fire or submerged in flames.But the rock never cares about the existence of the fire after lighting the fire.That's why in the world of love, there are always two characters who actively pursue and are forced to conquer.Two pursuers can't be love, and two chasers can't be love.When the chaser finally catches up with the chased, and love finally evolves into marriage, an extremely interesting phenomenon occurs: chasing and being chased in love often reverses to being dominated and dominated in marriage.

We often hear criticism from public opinion that young men and women are too demanding in choosing a marriage partner.But does this kind of public opinion ignore the following facts of life: when we go to a small store to buy groceries, we can completely ignore its quality; , and it will never be sold at the first counter of the first store, although we may go full circle and return to the old way; when we spend thousands of dollars to buy a home appliance, we are not only picky, but also Will invite friends to advise or call it a consumer guide, from appearance to quality to price and so on.

Then, when we choose a marriage partner, we certainly have the right to make more and more comprehensive choices, and it is reasonable to be picky.It just has to be a psychological position.When a person gets married after several unsuccessful love affairs, he (she) is no longer able to see the object of his spouse as a perfect person, and he (she) even clearly understands many shortcomings of the other party , such as mediocre appearance, humble occupation, extreme personality... These shortcomings are so unacceptable to first-time lovers, but people with these shortcomings do not lose their marriages because of this.Because there are too many of us in this world who are not perfect, not Prince Charming, not Snow White, or even nothing, but ordinary people who often have flesh and blood and emotions.

"What is love? It's a man and a woman who make a beautiful angel!"