Chapter 19 life is well

After a busy day, I rest on the chair alone, facing the dark window, take a deep breath, relieve the tension and fatigue, my mind gradually calms down, and I naturally want to recall the busyness of the day. There are those who are satisfied and those who are troubled, those who are successful and those who fail, and those who have setbacks and those who are successful.No matter what the situation is, as long as you are busy, the most important feeling in your heart is to feel at ease.I cherish this steadfastness in my heart very much, and I am full of this feeling, like a well, which contains deep but not revealed water.And a person's life and life are like a well, no one can measure the depth of the well water, and the reserves of the well are a mystery.

Many times, our actions are blind, because we lack self-awareness, we don't know what we are best suited to do, what we can do and what we should do, and we don't know what level we can do or whether we can make achievements.I think everyone will experience this kind of blindness, like a boat floating on the sea, can't see the shore, of course, don't know the direction, the oar in the hand, rowing east and west, the boat seems to be always swimming, in fact, it I only vortex in a small range, and I can't go farther, but I feel very tired.Then, a sense of bewilderment, powerlessness, and helplessness will take turns wearing down willpower and self-confidence.This is the easiest moment to stop, thinking that there is only so much you can do or that only these powers will not do anything anymore.This is also the most painful time.Because, there is nothing more frustrating than not seeing prospects and not seeing hope.Therefore, the greatest luck in life is to develop yourself properly and truly.

Well, appropriate.What does it really depend on? On their own.By unyielding tenacity. I have experience.Tough as a steel drill bit, if you keep digging deep into your own well, the well water will come out in a steady stream. The key is to persevere.Of course, the four words "persistence" are easy to write and say, but it takes a lot of "things" to support it if you really have to work hard for years. What are these "things"? ?The first is stress.If a person has no internal or external pressure, he will be light and light, doing things like a superficial glance, and often get nothing.The most powerful pressure I feel is failure is a setback is a blow.Actually, fail.Frustration and shock are the heaviest pressures in life, which can overwhelm people, as if there are mountains blocking all roads, making people desperate and daunting.But behind such "big mountains" lies the turning point of life, which depends on whether we have the courage to climb the "big mountains".Courage is the most effective weapon against stress.The reason why people live is by breathing.Qi is a sign of life and a sign of quality of life.People have to be competitive, and they have to pursue a vigorous and strong quality of life, and they should be majestic and high-spirited at all times.With this state of mind, all stress becomes a powerful motivator.With this kind of motivation, you will definitely make extraordinary achievements, you will find a self that you don’t know, and you will be pleasantly surprised to see that you are very capable, smart, and full of potential.

It can be said that the process of life is a process of constantly understanding oneself and a process of constantly digging oneself.Everyone has potential to be tapped, because everyone is a bottomless well.The process of life is the process of standing on the platform of one's own well and drawing water. It depends on how you know yourself and how you treat yourself.If you think that there is a lot of water in your well, and you pump it hard and hard, bucket after bucket, no matter the wind or rain, as long as you don’t stop, you can always pump water, you really can’t estimate your well. How much capacity does the "well" contain?Of course, the important thing is to work hard, to be hardworking, to not stop regardless of the wind and rain... and such a tenacious and lasting motivation must come from the heart, and it must be transformed from painful pressure.Therefore, after undergoing pressure and experiencing such a complete process from pressure to motivation and then motivation to results, I am no longer panicked, frustrated or complained about failures, setbacks and blows, and have learned to ask myself to bite Grit your teeth and straighten your back and do it again and again, as long as you have the perseverance of "again" and "again", as long as you don't hesitate to put the bucket in your hand into your own well, and lift water up without fear of hardship or tiredness. , any failure and any blow not only cannot crush and deplete people, but will make people fuller and have more water of life. The "water" with vitality is flexible and endless.Looking back on myself over the past ten years, the reason why I have been able to persist in writing in one go is because the pressure of many failures, setbacks and blows has been transformed into motivation by me. It is because the experience of failures, setbacks and blows has given me unusual Experience, experience, and experience, whether you have a deep understanding of yourself or others.I combined motivation and understanding into a spiritual force, and then poured this force into the tip of the pen and onto the manuscript paper.

Really, I never thought that I would become a writer in my life and write one book after another. I don't think I have the talent and knowledge to be a writer, but I have come all the way and become what I am today. Surprised myself.Being a writer is a very tiring job for me, because I have no literary preparation and no solid foundation. I think the only thing that can explain myself is that I still have a sense of stupidity in me. Don't admit defeat. I always think that a valuable life must be to use myself to the best of my ability; I always think that a meaningful life must fully reflect myself.

Therefore, I don't let myself worry about gains and losses, I have identified a path, and walked steadily, one step at a time.I don't expect to go fast, and I don't fantasize about reaching the sky in one step. I just don't let myself stop, walk slowly and keep walking, I can't see the speed, but I am always making progress, and I am gradually approaching the goal.It is this kind of purpose that makes me walk through the uneven road steadily and continuously.Looking back, I am sometimes surprised and proud that I have come out of an unexpected self.Only then did I understand that man can create accidents and miracles, because man is an unfathomable well, as long as you dig as hard as you want, the water you have will become a torrential river.

When there is a big river flowing from the bottom of my heart, there will be a kind of thorough calmness that will enable people to enter the realm of freedom, and they will have more confidence to dig deeper into their own well, and perhaps, it will flow out of the big river and the sea.I suddenly remembered that I once wrote a novel titled "My Heart Is Like the Sea". At that time, it was just a title. Now, I seem to really understand the meaning of the heart like the sea. A person with such a heart, he The spirit will be a new look.Therefore, I hope that my mind is really as broad as the sea.