Chapter 13 A good woman must have a good friend

The article "Women Have No Friends" indiscriminately applies the conclusion of "no friends" to all women. This is really a bit arbitrary and biased.It can be seen that the author is criticizing and complaining with anger.Accusing women of being narrow-minded, and even expressing their dissatisfaction with some hateful words in their anger.In real life, men hate women.Women hate men or women hate women.It often happens that men hate men, because life is full of contradictions and conflicts, but there is another side to life, life cannot live without love and friendship.I think that when the author wrote "Women Have No Friends", he only paid attention to the conflicts in life but ignored the friendship in life; it can also be said that the author only listed the general problems of ordinary women, and did not understand that quite a few women The spiritual quality of a good woman.It should be said that women are more emotional than men, and they tend to pay more attention to love and friendship, especially good women. Their inner pursuit of love and friendship are very touching. I can list many people and say a lot s story.

I don't deny that the phenomenon of "women have no friends" does exist. Once they have love and get married, they are easy to be satisfied with the joy of love, easy to sink into the warmth of a small family, and devote themselves wholeheartedly to a happiness and a life. These days gradually drifted away.I can't care less about friends who have neglected the past.Even good women, when they fall in love for the first time or when they just start a family, they will have such a period of time to completely immerse themselves in the world of two people and enjoy family happiness. This is normal and understandable. This is the same as "having no friends" is irrelevant.Moreover, I really want to talk about what a good woman is in this article.

First of all, I think that for a good woman, her best friend is often a girlfriend.The so-called "same-sex repulsion" is a physical phenomenon.People are not things, women are more spiritual.A good woman, the reason why she is good, must not be so narrow-minded and like to treat others with gloat, and she must know how to appreciate the strengths and advantages of others, no matter men or women.According to my experience, I often appreciate men in novels and movies, and women in real life.Really, I am really proud of having a few excellent girlfriends around me. We often sit and chat for a long time. Sometimes we talk very trivial and specific, and sometimes we can talk deeply and frankly.Such triviality and profoundness, such frankness and concreteness, seem to be only possible when talking with girlfriends.Because when women face women, they will have many same or similar feelings and feelings, and their hearts are so close.Therefore, chatting with my girlfriend is a very pleasant spiritual enjoyment, and in the process of chatting, I have unknowingly received comfort from my friends.help and support.I remember that the French female writer Simon de Beauvoir said something like this (roughly): An excellent woman must also love women, because women are greater.

Of course, living in a man's world, an excellent and successful woman will inevitably make some good boyfriends.In my opinion, men are generally less willing to treat outstanding women.Capable women take home as wives, but they will be willing to make friends with such a good woman.Similarly; a stable and good woman will not fall in love with men easily, and they are more likely to be friends with men than lovers or lovers.This is a friend in the full sense, without a lot of gender awareness, it is the friendship and friendship between people.For a woman, there are limited occasions where she is required to play a female role. Only in the eyes of her husband and children, she is a wife and a mother. In more social life, they only need to consider how to obtain Trust obtains help and obtains opportunity, and "trust", "help" and "opportunity" often come from friends.I believe that a woman has many boyfriends who come and go.Her work and career are sure to be icing on the cake by sharing what she has and what she doesn't have.

To be precise, the kind of women who "have no friends" and "do not make friends" mentioned in the article "Women Have No Friends" are just mediocre women who have been imprisoned in their love life and family life. Others buried themselves alive at the same time.But this is only a part of women. For this part, it is worth reminding, but women cannot be degraded so badly in general. I have to seriously reiterate: a good woman must have good friends!