Chapter 15 girl's mind

Naying is a 14-year-old Korean girl who just learned Chinese with me. The little girl is juicy, white and clean, like a clear crystal.When I see her, I don't doubt why there are so many handsome men and beauties on Korean TV. She just stands in front of you, and you can feel the charm of "six palaces, pink and black without color".Her eyes flicker like a heroine in a cartoon, with probing curiosity, the corners of her mouth are always slightly upturned, two very sweet dimples are looming, and she has a yingying smile just like her name. We were very casual in class, eating pastries carefully prepared by her mother, drinking coffee, and learning Chinese one by one.I understand her mother's heart.Her family is a wealthy family, it doesn't matter what the daughter learns, anyway, she will marry into a wealthy family in the future, what matters is the resume, once you get it out, WOW!I have learned so many, so many, so many things... just to make some capital for my future marriage.According to her own statement, she has learned flute, piano, violin, and Xiao in terms of musical instruments; in terms of language, she has learned Spanish, French, Japanese, and now Chinese.

I have heard her play the flute, her posture is one end, it is like a person in the painting, she can play the flute back and forth, and I have heard her speak Japanese. To be honest, it is not as much as I can speak. After half a year, I can't even tell the difference between regular holidays and film holidays. But I like Na Ying very much, just because of her carelessness, she draws and draws on the paper while listening to my lectures with a pen. The Chinese characters are written like tracing pictures. "Teacher, do you know what love is?" That day, she suddenly raised her almond eyes and asked me thoughtfully, with a bit of pain that didn't match her age.How winky I am, I can tell at a glance that Xiaonizi is thinking of spring and has something to say.

"I don't know much, tell me." I encouraged her with a smile. Don't be awkward and hesitant, she told a tactful and tortuous love story. "There's a boy at school, I like him so much! He has a scar on his face, he's so cool, he looks like a mafia." "What? You like him because he looks like a mafia?" "No He's so funny, he can eat such a big piece of cake in one bite, and he can whistle very, very beautifully!" She drew a big circle in the air with her hand, which made me think this boy looked like an African refugee. "Does he know you like him?" I asked. "Yeah! We've all been on dates! He took me to the beach for rollerblading, it's cool!" "Not bad!" I was very interested.

"However, he offended my mother. My mother doesn't like him. He called me yesterday and pretended to be an American child and spoke English, but his mother heard that he was a Korean child. He was very angry and felt that he deliberately concealed it. Good intentions. My mother doesn't allow me to associate with him." Na Ying looks so pretty with her lips pouted. I laughed, remembering when I was in junior high school, a chubby guy in the class admired me, pinched his nose and called my house pretending to be a girl looking for me, and was scolded by my mother.Why has history not progressed for so many years?

"Then you tell mom that you treat him as a good friend, please rest assured that nothing will happen, mom will forgive him." I suggested. "No! I can't change what my mother said. She has already said that if I see him again, he won't give me pocket money." Well, this is indeed a serious fork in the road, and it has come to a choice between love and bread. "How about you secretly meet him at school and not contact him when you get home?" I came up with a bad idea.I understand love, especially the love of young girls.You said it stinks, she must think it smells good, the more you restrain her, the more she wants to taste it secretly, maybe something will happen.I think back then when I was fifteen years old and fell in love with today's lover, everyone said it was wrong, but I kept going forward. After another fifteen years, everyone praised this contemporary good boy, but I wondered why I didn't listen to my parents back then and made troubles like this today. appearance?Became his lifelong slave.see?This is what happens with oppression.

"Yingying! Let me tell you this. Love is not constant. What you like now is different from what you will love in the future. Now you like him because he is cool, because he is funny, because he Make you happy. But after you are 20, you look back and see that it was just a child's relationship. At that time, if you fall in love again, you will hope to have someone to rely on, someone who can take care of each other. So, I am not worried about you Do you really like him today, or how long will you like him? I won’t tell you no, anyway, it’s useless. You can continue. However, I want to emphasize one point: you can hold hands but not kiss, you can play together or not Physical contact is allowed, especially don't let him touch your here." I pointed to her chest.She blushed and said, Oh, what did you say!

I said, I'm serious, miss.You don't want to have kids with him, do you?She protested loudly, of course she didn't want to!What are you talking about you! I said, since you don’t want it, you can’t have close contact. Not wanting it and not having it happen are two different things. Many things happen beyond your control, so you have to stick to this bottom line. For other fun, you just have to be happy.Until one day, when you meet a man and you really want to have a child with him, you can hug him intimately.promise me? Naying agreed to me lightly, maybe in her heart, liking hasn't glided so far.

According to my instructions, Naying called the boy with my mobile phone and told him to call his mother tomorrow to sincerely apologize. To tell the truth, she only said that she behaved poorly because she was afraid of being blamed. Please forgive me. At an appropriate time next week, I will talk to Naying's mother about "the upbringing of a naughty girl". I hope that Mrs. Jin can open her mind and accept the current situation of her family having troubles. Perhaps this kind of trouble will continue for at least ten years, until one day, a gentle and elegant man took his daughter's white gloves and put a diamond ring on the "troublesome" ring finger like a wild horse.

2003-12-21