Chapter 5 educational bias

Speaking of education, everyone has a set of theories, but in practice, we will find deviations. Using my cat as a carrier, the laborer and I each practiced our own theories, and now write a practice report. The bad habit that cats can't change is defecation everywhere.I call it freewheeling and maliciously indulging yourself.For example, I urinated on my bed the day before, and I just washed a set of sheets and mattresses, and the next day I did not change my habit, and the crime repeated itself.I can forgive his unintentional mistake the first time, but I can't tolerate it again and again.

The laborer proudly said, "Look, I told you earlier that the rule of law must be followed when dealing with children."This law is Han Feizi's "law". If it is too benevolent, it will create illusions and cause chaos. For this little thing, torture will not solve the problem. I was firmly opposed to corporal punishment at first, because I thought corporal punishment was treating the symptoms, not the root cause. After two days, the scar healed, and I didn’t remember the pain anymore. The key is to understand the reason.In the end, it was agreed that the laborers should be subjected to the ten torture methods of the Manchu Qing Dynasty, because friends who visited my house recently generally reported that my house smelled like urine, plus the newspapers that were dragged all over the floor by cats and cats.

Another phenomenon of lack of rules, I and the laborers were not aware of it, but my friends found out, criticized us severely, and caused our hearts to be hurt.When my friend went to eat at home, I found that both the laborer and I had the habit of lifting the rice bowl above our heads, took a quick bite, and then raised it to the top of our heads. On the table, cats were pacing anxiously and yelling at us in great dissatisfaction.My friend said: "What does this look like!? There are no rules at all! How can someone sit at the same table as a cat? If the cat doesn't fight, it will really destroy the roof tiles of your house." I also defended the cat and said, "You are here, The two of us are eating in this position, it is not very elegant. But usually we don’t eat like this, he looks at the cat, I eat first, then I look at the cat, he eats again, cats usually don’t have a chance to serve .”

The final conclusion of my friend is that usually parents can’t see the shortcomings of their children, just one word - spoiled; two words - too spoiled; three words - spoiled! I couldn't let this cat embarrass our educational family, so I closed my eyes, frowned, made up my mind, and told the laborers: "You hit!" Labor began his career as a red-faced strict father.If Maomao doesn’t drain the water in the prescribed place, the laborer will grab him by the neck first, drag him to the crime scene, give evidence first, point to the puddle of urine and yell loudly: “Look! You’re peeing again! Who is this? What did you do?! Which stinker made my house dirty?!" Then he slapped Mao Mao's buttocks twice, eliciting a wail, and as soon as he let go, Mao Mao ran away like a stray dog.The laborers persisted, chased and beat, moved the sofa again, removed the bookshelf, or forced the protruding poop under the bed to find out the cat that caused the accident, and then brought it to the correct excretion position, and lit the small The guy's head said: "Piss here! Do you know? Do you have a long memory?!"

When the laborers chased and attacked the cats, I usually ignored them.I can't watch the fiery fight scene, and I can't look straight into the eyes of the cat begging for mercy.It is said that the first principle of education is consistency. You must not fight one by one, and keep the pain in your heart.So I closed the door to ignore the commotion outside. Despite my determined cooperation, it seems that the effect is not very good.As a result, Mao Mao seemed to be even more at a loss, not knowing where he should go.In the past, there were only a few fixed locations, and we could always find traces by following the smell in the past, but now we have to work hard to move the bed and sofa, and the detection methods are more primitive, relying on the sense of smell and the direction of the wind.When the wind changes one day, the workers and I will sniff our noses and lie down on the ground to search for the familiar smell coming from a strange place.I laughed at him and said that our family is now a cat and two dogs living together.

To make matters worse, Maomao could not remember the location of the urinal, but remembered the person who abused him.Now when we see a laborer, he just sneaks away and disappears, or finds a safe place to hide and keeps silent as soon as he urinates, causing us to look for him everywhere. So I came on the stage very proudly, and asked the laborers to see why the word "benevolence" of Confucius can run through thousands of years of Chinese history.The central idea of ​​Confucius is "benevolence". Education should center on love, adopt encouraging methods, and teach students in accordance with their aptitude.Only by giving the laborer a chance to fail can I bring out the difficulty of my success, and show him who is the real educational talent of this family with the actual educational achievements.

I am best at persuading with soft words.I started to call him very affectionately "Bao——!" Such a nickname makes this cat who has always suffered from old fists feel comfortable. As long as I call: "Bao——!" the cat will jump on tiptoe very softly He got on my knee, closed his eyes and let me scratch his chin.So I began to educate him after he chose the most comfortable position: "Baby! My good baby, poops into the basin and urinates into the pool, do you know?" So Bao replied obediently: "Dao——!" Babies' favorite food is cake with whipped cream.I use this food as a magic weapon to reward him.If he's in the right place quite properly, I'll put a small piece of cake next to his potty.

The cat has obviously improved, and the number of times it has been put into the pot is much more than before. However, Bao sometimes doesn't turn his head to understand, and doesn't quite understand when he can get his beloved cake. According to his logic, it should sit in the urinal, and the cake will arrive. So Bao spent a lot of time in the urinal these two days, pulling his neck and yelling at me, which made me laugh out loud, because there was obviously a bubble of golden urine lying just a short distance away. 2004-01-04