Chapter 9 to the loser

to the loser When a person has just been hit by something, he will be particularly depressed. "During that time, you feel like a fighter who has lost a boxing punch, you get knocked down by that hard punch, you're dizzy, you're full of jeers from the audience, and that feeling of failure. At that time, You'll feel like you just don't want to get up! Feel like you don't have the strength to get up! But you will get up.Whether it's before the referee counts to ten, or after.And, slowly, you will regain your strength, the trauma will heal, and your eyes will open again to see a bright future ahead.

You'll forget the jeers from the audience, and the humiliation of failure.You will find a suitable path for yourself - stop being a boxer. Since you are not suitable for winning in the arena, you should sink your heart and look for it, find another direction.On this front, you can win.Or, instead of competing for victory, you can be safe, happy, and free from the humiliation of failure. Don't pay attention to other people's opinions!Some people are a little bit magical, superstitious about the glorious name, and don't pay attention to each person's unique expertise. I advise you not to be nervous!It is inevitable that you will be discouraged these days.You need time to restore your mental and physical strength.

Take it easy.After a while, I will find a correct direction again and work hard again.These days, you might as well find something to do that you like, and write down your troubles in your diary.After a while, you will find that the pain of failure has gradually healed, and you will have new courage and strength to open up a new future for yourself. I wish you success! All detours are never in vain.On the road of life, every step you take, you will definitely gain a step of experience.Regardless of whether this step is right or wrong, "right" has right gains, and "wrong" has wrong lessons.As a result of taking a long detour and taking the wrong path, you are just like getting lost and walking into a deep mountain. While others are anxious and sorry for your danger, you have collected some rare flowers and fruits, and obtained some rare birds and beasts.And you have recognized the road a little bit more, and exercised a little more strength and courage.

It is certainly enviable to have smooth sailing, but the luck bestowed by God is rare and cannot be sought after.The only thing that is safe and reliable is the compass in your heart.No matter how far you go, no matter how tightly blocked you are, as long as you don't forget your direction, you will reach your goal one day.