Chapter 4 success trilogy

Only by burying your head can you get your head out Many aspiring people ignore the principle that little can make a lot, and they only want to make a big splash instead of doing hard work.One day suddenly, he saw that those who started later than him and who were less talented than him had already achieved considerable gains, did he realize that there was still nothing in his field.Only then did he understand that it was not that God did not give him ideals or aspirations, but that he was only waiting for a good harvest, but forgot to sow the seeds. I have a friend who often comes to chat with me in his free time.He studied law, but he is passionate about drama, and he often wants to have the opportunity to jump on the screen and become a big star.However, I have never seen him try the opportunity to enter the film and television industry.So I asked him, "Why don't you give it a try?"

He said: "I don't want to compete with those fledgling kids. I'm almost 30 years old. Even if I get in, I'll just play a small supporting role. What's the point? What am I going to wait for?" If there is a big company looking for a protagonist in a certain film that fits my character, I will hire it as soon as I go, and only then can I become a blockbuster." However, how many people are there who are so lucky?So, he had no choice but to let the years pass by and grow old, and his wish was still just a wish.Just because he refuses to start from scratch, he will never get in touch with his ideal paradise.

It is no use simply lamenting anxiously over your unfulfilled wishes.In order to achieve the goal, it is necessary to start from scratch.The so-called "climbing high will make you feel inferior, and traveling far will make you feel inferior"; just like climbing a mountain, you have to keep your head down and climb carefully and patiently.After you have put in a lot of hard work, you can see how many difficulties you have overcome and how many dangerous roads you have walked. Small successes like this will gradually accumulate into larger successes that are closer to the ideal goal.

The ultimate goal is by no means achieved in a blink of an eye. It is useless to worry about the distant goal before paying the price of hard work and sacrifice.And only by starting from the basics and moving towards the goal step by step can we slowly approach and reach it. The ancients said: "Only by burying your head can you get your head out." If the seed does not go through the process of struggling in the hard soil, it will stop at a shriveled seed, and it will never germinate and grow into a big tree. catch the moment Marie Curie said: "The weak wait for the opportunity, the strong create the opportunity." This is really a wise saying. "Taipei Minzu Evening News" once recorded a story of Dr. Lin Yutang's year:

"One day, a gentleman hosted a banquet for Ms. Pearl Buck, a famous American writer. Mr. Lin Yutang was also invited, so he asked the host to arrange his table next to Pearl Buck. During the banquet, Pearl Buck knew that there were many Chinese in the table. If you are a writer, say: 'Why don't you present your new work to the American publishing industry? I would like to introduce it.'" "At the time, the people in the seat thought it was just an ordinary perfunctory rhetoric, and paid no attention to it; Du Lin Boshang agreed on the spot, and returned with the power of two days to collect his English essays published in China into a huge volume. Pearl Buck, please correct me. Because of this, Sai had a very good impression of Dr. Lin, and then tried his best to help him succeed.

"It is said that there were Wu Jingxiong, Wen Yuanning, Quan Zenggu, etc. among the guests that day, and their English attainments were not inferior to Dr. Lin's. Therefore, after the event, if they were as serious as Lin's, they could also send their works to the competition on the same day. family, the one who succeeds today may not necessarily be the Lin family." Judging from this story, whether a person can succeed depends on genius and hard work, but he is good at creating opportunities and grasping opportunities in time. He does not follow, wait and see, shrink back, or hesitate. Courage, determination to practice, how many factors add up to create a person's success.Therefore, although it is said that someone's success lies in a very accidental opportunity, if you think about it seriously, it is by no means accidental that this accidental opportunity can be discovered, caught, and fully utilized.

Opportunity is a gap that is beneficial to you accidentally created by many complicated factors in the world. This gap is fleeting, so to seize the opportunity, you really need to "capture" it quickly, instead of sitting there waiting or procrastinating. A Western proverb says: "Opportunity will not knock on your door again." This does not mean that it is too big, but that it is also manipulated and pushed between everything, and it is involuntary. Waiting is the biggest reason for people's failure, so it is said: "The weak wait for the opportunity, and the strong create the opportunity"; the so-called "creating the opportunity" is nothing more than trying to add one-thousandth of your own in the operation of thousands of factors. The power of the "opportunity" is just an attempt to make the operation of "opportunity" beneficial to oneself.The story of Dr. Lin Yutang can be said to be the best proof.

Waiting and watching is the enemy of our success.Many people hesitate to let go of the opportunity that has come before them because they have no confidence in it.Chance never comes again, and it is true, because even if it comes to your door again, it will still slip away if you don't get rid of your wandering mind.